Bobbi7 Posted March 26, 2016 Posted March 26, 2016 So, I was talking to this guy on OLD-we exchanged numbers last week-and we talking about meeting up. He asked if I wanted to meet up this week, then I asked if he wanted to meet up the following week instead, he replied, "that works for me." Last night-at midnight-he sent me a text asking if I wanted to meet up with him for lunch. I was like wth? I was already asleep and didn't see the text until this morning, I then replied, that I already had plans and I thought we were going to meet up next week. He then replied, "Probably not." So, then I replied, "Yeah, I'm not interested either. Good Luck." Geez. What was his deal? Didn't he say next week was good and why they heck send me a text at midnight??? Stupid cocky attitude. 1
devilish innocent Posted March 26, 2016 Posted March 26, 2016 I wonder if he was counting the week-end as the start of the new week. But yeah, it sounds like he didn't have the patience to wait and just wanted to move on.
loveisanaction Posted March 26, 2016 Posted March 26, 2016 He texts you at midnight to see if you could meet for lunch later in the day...Pfffff. I'm pretty sure he was hoping you were awake so that he could change lunch to 'would you like to come over now?' If he contacts you again i wouldn't respond. 1
Author Bobbi7 Posted March 26, 2016 Author Posted March 26, 2016 (edited) I wonder if he was counting the week-end as the start of the new week. But yeah, it sounds like he didn't have the patience to wait and just wanted to move on. Yeah, no patience whatsoever..but in all-are people forced to meet someone from OLD as soon as possible? Geez. What an a-hole, no patience to wait for someone to meet up? And I was already in bed by midnight-what..sounds like he was pissed that I didn't answer this text at 1am or something? My phone isn't going to be on stand-by for him. Edited March 26, 2016 by Bobbi7 1
Author Bobbi7 Posted March 26, 2016 Author Posted March 26, 2016 So, is this all my fault for not wanting to meet up sooner? What is the turn around time for OLD? I never had someone get pissy and Nexted me over this. 1
Mccoy321 Posted March 27, 2016 Posted March 27, 2016 Who's fault is it? Why do you care? Move on to someone who is not an *********. 3
ChickiePops Posted March 27, 2016 Posted March 27, 2016 Who's fault is it? Why do you care? He wanted sex, you didn't put out, he lost interest. End of story. Move on! 2
Author Bobbi7 Posted March 27, 2016 Author Posted March 27, 2016 (edited) Why do you care? He wanted sex, you didn't put out, he lost interest. End of story. Move on! He asked me if I wanted to have lunch-which I asked him if next week was good, he said that it was-then I told him that I assumed we were on for next week and he replied probably not. [] We were planning on meeting up- [] I didn't put anything about sex. [] Edited March 27, 2016 by a LoveShack.org Moderator Redacted personal attacks and rude posting ~6 1
Boomerangmagnet Posted March 27, 2016 Posted March 27, 2016 (edited) He contacted you at a bad hour. That isn't respectful. And as others have been pointing out, the contact more than likely [not] about the date you already had set up. It was more than likely a booty text. He probably went out drinking, didn't score and thought "I don't really care what happens with this chick, I'll give it a shot. " Edited March 27, 2016 by a LoveShack.org Moderator Clarification ~6 1
Spikiera Posted March 27, 2016 Posted March 27, 2016 Who's fault is it? Not sure why you even care about this. You guys didn't click, he's not interested, you are not interested, move on.
SunnyWeather Posted March 27, 2016 Posted March 27, 2016 Stupid cocky attitude. I am often aghast at the level of hubris some men show on OLD. Their sense of entitlement is so glaringly obvious to me now that I have more experienced eyes from which to witness and deflect it. amusement OP, you must keep your sense of amusement high in the process
joseb Posted March 28, 2016 Posted March 28, 2016 I am often aghast at the level of hubris some people show on OLD. Their sense of entitlement is so glaringly obvious Fixed that for you 1
SunnyWeather Posted March 28, 2016 Posted March 28, 2016 (edited) Fixed that for you OK, you got me there I was only speaking *from my experience* and how it relates to the OP's suggestion about men expecting sex on demand. Maybe you have that same issue with women texting you at midnight with the implication of it being about a booty call Edited March 28, 2016 by SunnyWeather
joseb Posted March 28, 2016 Posted March 28, 2016 OK, you got me there I was only speaking *from my experience* and how it relates to the OP's suggestion about men expecting sex on demand. Maybe you have that same issue with women texting you at midnight with the implication of it being about a booty call Well, if you count random texts late at night then absolutely, yes, many times. I must admit though I almost never thought it was a booty call, just a drunken text, maybe I'm a bit too innocent:) I must admit though that would be at the bottom of a long list of entitled behaviour I see online.
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