Meowmeow659 Posted March 26, 2016 Posted March 26, 2016 Hi, I need some advice, I will try cut this story as short as possible. 2 and a half years ago I moved across the other side of the world (Europe) chasing a girl (from my home town). I got there and she told me she didn't want me and it sucked. A few months later I start dating a girl from Europe , after a while it becomes serious, we move in together and move to a new city together. In the new city I staRt a new job working with another girl (who also has a boyfriend) after a while my workmate and I start having sex on Friday nights after a few drinks. This continues for weeks. She then tells me she has broken up with her boyfriend after 7 years. I ask if it's because of me and she says no. Not long after my visa runs out and I have to return home. I take my girlfriend with me because it has been planned for a long time. Now I am back home with my girlfriend and all I do is think about my lover overseas. She feels the same and sends me messages everyday. What aM I supposed to do? I can't just dump my girlfriend or she will be stuck in a foreign country with no money, no friends , no way to get home , Etc. Also I can't just go back to see my lover as I don't have a visa !! It's ****ed and I don't know what to do ... Help!! Obviously some details are left out here, ask if you want to know more
Satu Posted March 26, 2016 Posted March 26, 2016 (edited) Your dishonesty has created an insoluble problem. You've painted yourself into a corner. There's no happy ending possible. Tell all to your 'girlfriend,' and take what you've got coming to you. Then spend a long(ish) time on your own, improving yourself. Good luck. Edited March 26, 2016 by Satu 1
TaraMaiden2 Posted March 26, 2016 Posted March 26, 2016 Based solely on what you tell us above, you were thinking with your little trouser friend, and now, you're in a tight spot. I agree with Satu. Confess everything and let your poor GF decide what she wants to do. If you have any decency in you, you'll offer to buy her a ticket back to her family... After that, you will at least be free to make further decisions. 1
LostOnes05 Posted March 26, 2016 Posted March 26, 2016 Your dishonesty has created an insoluble problem. You've painted yourself into a corner. There's no happy ending possible. Tell all to your 'girlfriend,' and take what you've got coming to you. Then spend a long(ish) time on your own, improving yourself. Good luck. Wash, Rinse, Repeat...you did this to yourself bud. 1
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