HansonGirl Posted March 26, 2016 Posted March 26, 2016 a few months ago, he rejected me. I was very interested in him, and had developed feelings for him over the time we've known each other. He kept saying we are friends and wanting to be friends, and being flirtatious (in the real OBVIOUS way that even an oblivious person like me could tell), he actually seemed to come on stronger, even though he said there's some other woman he likes and i have no idea who the person is. I feel like we're in junior high because he "likes" someone else and he doesn't "like" me, even though he initiated kissing me. Now it's my birthday tomorrow and he wants me to come over to his apartment party tonight (he knows tomorrow is my birthday). Some mutual friends will be there, but I'm not sure I want to go because what if the girl he "likes" is there - I don't think it'll be fun. I think i may just stay in and watch a movie and chill tonight and do something fun tomorrow with friends. btw he's still single, not dating the girl, whoever she is. normally i get it if someone is not interested, you move on. but usually they don't insist that you be friends and it just gradually fades away. they don't go out of their way to tell you they don't like you. I just feel pain. I don't want to ruin my birthday.
whichwayisup Posted March 26, 2016 Posted March 26, 2016 Don't go. He isn't thinking of how you'll feel around him and the girl he likes currently. Enjoy your birthday with good friends that aren't mutual friends and don't let him ruin your special day!
preraph Posted March 26, 2016 Posted March 26, 2016 Just because he kissed you doesn't mean he really likes you. I mean, guys like sex and often separate that as long as you let them from a relationship. If you don't want to go, don't go. Besides, you already know this about him: He "likes" one girl and kisses another. How would you like to be the girlfriend knowing he will indiscriminately kiss other women at the same time?
Author HansonGirl Posted March 26, 2016 Author Posted March 26, 2016 (edited) we did more than just "kiss" - I was trying to be discreet. But you are absolutely right. he's the type to kiss other people and do other things even though he claims to like someone else. And then he insists that the girl he kissed despite liking someone else keep in close contact with him and act like everything is hunky dory. anyways, it doesn't matter - i didn't end up going. Edited March 26, 2016 by HansonGirl
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