xforeverlove22 Posted March 24, 2016 Posted March 24, 2016 So my ex ghosted me for 5.5 months and he ghosted me the day he got a new girlfriend (still with her). Even in person we wouldn't look each other in the eye. He randomly messages me and asks me how I'm doing. We kept it casual than he ends it by saying he's here for me. Anyways I got drunk (really drunk). Than I confronted him about why he messaged me and asked if its cause of guilt for dumping me and he said he truly wanted to know how I've been and gave me space and thought nows the good time to ask. He said and I quote "I still do care for you and it's more genuine than before I'm truly here for you." Than under the influence of alcohol I started telling him how I still had feelings for him and how he's an ******* for hurting me in the past... He looked at these messages but didn't respond (he may have even blocked my #) Why do you think he did this in the first place? What intentions? 1
Satu Posted March 24, 2016 Posted March 24, 2016 Maybe there was nothing on tv and he was bored. Sometimes it comes down to something as trivial and simple as that... 2
preraph Posted March 25, 2016 Posted March 25, 2016 Probably he hoped to keep you dangling in case this thing falls apart. He doesn't care enough about you. Some guys just like collecting women. Probably he was just finding out if you're mild enough or desperate enough to be there as a backup. Once you spoke your mind (and good for you), he knows keeping you on the side probably isn't an option. Block his butt. 1
kendahke Posted March 25, 2016 Posted March 25, 2016 So my ex ghosted me for 5.5 months and he ghosted me the day he got a new girlfriend. Even in person we wouldn't look each other in the eye. He randomly messages me and asks me how I'm doing. We kept it casual than he ends it by saying he's here for me. Anyways I got drunk (really drunk). Than I confronted him about why he messaged me and asked if its cause of guilt for dumping me and he said he truly wanted to know how I've been and gave me space and thought nows the good time to ask. He said and I quote "I still do care for you and it's more genuine than before I'm truly here for you." Than under the influence of alcohol I started telling him how I still had feelings for him (stage 5 clinger moment)... He looked at these messages but didn't respond (he may have even blocked my #) He was trying to see how easy the path back into your bed would be. If he cared so much about you, he wouldn't be with a new chick. He'd be with you. He's not there for you by any stretch of the imagination. Block his number. He's already made his choice and it wasn't you. 1
Satu Posted March 25, 2016 Posted March 25, 2016 He was trying to see how easy the path back into your bed would be. If he cared so much about you, he wouldn't be with a new chick. He'd be with you. He's not there for you by any stretch of the imagination. Block his number. He's already made his choice and it wasn't you. ^^^ This ^^^
Author xforeverlove22 Posted March 26, 2016 Author Posted March 26, 2016 He was trying to see how easy the path back into your bed would be. If he cared so much about you, he wouldn't be with a new chick. He'd be with you. He's not there for you by any stretch of the imagination. Block his number. He's already made his choice and it wasn't you. Do you think he may have been trying to be friendly or my friend again? Or is it most definitely he just wanted to see how down I will be for him? 1
Author xforeverlove22 Posted March 26, 2016 Author Posted March 26, 2016 My ex broke up with me and said he didn’t want commitment and he basically used me… So my ex started ghosting me the same day he got a new girlfriend. I went along with the whole no contact thing, even in person he would ignore me (but if he did see me he would just stare). We haven’t said a word to each other. He randomly out of the blue texts me after 6 months saying “Hey I hope everything is going well.” Than just asks me how I am and ends the convo by saying “I’m here for you if you ever need anything.” The next day I went out with friends and was extremely intoxicated, so yeah I started texting him. I confronted him about why he texted me the day before and asked if its cause he felt guilty about the past and he said he actually wanted to see how things were. I told him that what he did to me in the past bothers me a lot and hurt me a lot (even tho it really didn’t). He than says “I still care about you and its more genuine than before. I’m truly here for you.” Than I told him things like how he’s a f*ck boy and ended it by saying how I still have feelings for him (which i don’t) thus why it hurts. Than he goes silent on me and stops responding (maybe even blocked my #).
joseb Posted March 26, 2016 Posted March 26, 2016 I told him that what he did to me in the past bothers me a lot and hurt me a lot (even tho it really didn’t) ... and ended it by saying how I still have feelings for him (which i don’t) thus why it hurts. Why did you lie and say he hurt you and you still gave feelings for him? I'm really nor following you at all. What is the point of your post exactly? 1
Author xforeverlove22 Posted March 26, 2016 Author Posted March 26, 2016 Why did you lie and say he hurt you and you still gave feelings for him? I'm really nor following you at all. What is the point of your post exactly? I wanted to guilt trip him for hurting me in the past
TaraMaiden2 Posted March 26, 2016 Posted March 26, 2016 I wanted to guilt trip him for hurting me in the past Why would you want to do that? You've now posted 2 other threads (now merged) more or less about this issue. It's obviously bothering you a lot, and you want to hurt him. Do you think that is a sensible thing to do?
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