Using Friends To Communicate Interest In A Woman

March 25, 2016

Is it ever a good idea to use friends to communicate to a woman that I like her? What if those friends of mine happen to be supernatural forces like angels who ghostwrite a note to the woman I have a crush on?

For those of you who are skeptical about the supernatural you can stop reading this thread now and save your breath because I already know what angle you are coming from when you give advice. It is kind of hard for me to take advice seriously from those who have never witnessed anything supernatural in their lives. If you haven't experienced it for yourself then you are not in a position to be of help to those who have.

Here's the back story. I've had a crush on a female work colleague for the last year and a half. Before the crush developed I had been working with her regularly for over 10 years. I started to distance myself and reduce contact with her after the crush developed.

So anyway last Christmas I felt the desire to send a Christmas card to her. I did not as we are just work colleagues. So I figured it would be more appropriate to address the entire working staff instead. My supervisor put the card up on the break room bulletin board.

Apparently several days went by and nobody read the card as they didn't think to look to the board. So according to my mutual friend source (very reliable) after 5 days this piece of paper suddenly appears out of nowhere and then part of a hand appeared writing in blue marker the words "PlEASE READ".

So that got all my work colleagues attention in the break room and my crush witnessed this appearance too. At that point word got out and everybody read the card.

Another reason I believe my mutual friend not only because of his history of being a reliable witness and honest is also that many of my work colleagues behavior changed towards me after that. They look at me in awe and question if I am even human. One of them commented to me about how they think I am an angel.

Well fast forward to 2 weeks later. By this time everybody has read the card. But something strange happens that evening. The card disappears and reappears in my crush's car. This time all the words I wrote on the card addressing happy holidays to everyone just disappeared. Instead somebody wrote a personal note in my name to my crush apparently revealing to her that I have liked her ever since August of 2014.

No human being could have written this note. I certainly didn't write it. If what my mutual friend is telling me is true then I believe an angel wrote the note to my crush revealing my interest in her.

Another way I know that some angel friends from heaven got the word out to her is how my crush has behaved toward me since the card disappeared from the breakroom that night. She had been more encouraging of our communications that were not work related. She started touching me more on my arm. She has never touched me before. She has given more compliments since then about my looks, attire and work performance and how nice and quiet I am when doing my job and saying I'm unlike many other guys she comes in contact with.

When she hears another work colleague calling my name and asking a work related question she will attempt to answer for me as if she had my name.

So assuming that my sources are correct in what they are telling me this woman has become aware of my crush without my permission and through some supernatural source.

So to those female members who believe in the supernatural if you received strong evidence of a guy communicating his interest to you through supernatural forces such as an unseen force ghostwriting a note and making it appear in your home or car out of nowhere would you find that cowardly and be turned off? Would you attempt to talk back to the supernatural source to pass a message back to the guy?

I think my crush might have showed the card to some others at work. They probably would believe it was supernatural too since they had seem the card before and can't explain how the words disappeared and changed. An angel did a leak and I don't know what to do about it. No I still have not asked her out.

March 25, 2016

I believe in super natural things ive seen some interesting things in my time but honestly I think you need to get up the guts to talk to this girl directly with out having to put so much stock in wild stories you dont need these kind of tales to ask a girl out...

March 25, 2016

Yes I feel safe hiding behind supernatural forces. I feel like I have bodyguard angels speaking in my defense and filling in the gaps of communication.

March 25, 2016

Yes I feel safe hiding behind supernatural forces. I feel like I have bodyguard angels speaking in my defense and filling in the gaps of communication.

Ok that's cewl we all like to feel safe some believe in angels some are religious and some not but when you start taking it past that pleasant thought of security and start thinking they are directly influencing major happenings in your life then that's not really healthy OP..do you have friends in RL who could guide you in talking to this girl and help you break out of your shyness?

March 25, 2016

Ok that's cewl we all like to feel safe some believe in angels some are religious and some not but when you start taking it past that pleasant thought of security and start thinking they are directly influencing major happenings in your life then that's not really healthy OP..do you have friends in RL who could guide you in talking to this girl and help you break out of your shyness?

Yes I do have some friends. I suppose I should call one of my human friends up and buy them a drink while talking it over. It is going to be very difficult as I spent a year and a half putting on a front of pretending not to like her. I wasn't mean to her but I just pretended to pay less attention to her.

March 25, 2016

Yes I do have some friends. I suppose I should call one of my human friends up and buy them a drink while talking it over.

That sounds like a great idea

March 25, 2016

Yes I do have some friends. I suppose I should call one of my human friends up and buy them a drink while talking it over. It is going to be very difficult as I spent a year and a half putting on a front of pretending not to like her. I wasn't mean to her but I just pretended to pay less attention to her.

Its ok im sure she doesn't mind just think of it this way it will be a fresh start to help with nerves think of her as a friend when you talk to her and not a romantic interest makes sense as all love starts with solid friendship right? ..So try to find any common ground you two might have and work from there keep it light and fun you can do it good luck

March 25, 2016

You could take her out for a burger or something

March 25, 2016

I don't think you should call a human friend.

So far you only have this colleague's version of what happened. I think you should try to find out which angel's hand drew the card to your crush's attention.

Perhaps this angel could be more instrumental in bringing you two together. I mean the human guy can only do so much, right?

Let us know what happens

March 25, 2016

Supernatural powers -- when you meet the unexpected in the unexpected circumstances and unexpected people. After that its the humans who need to work to make it work.

March 25, 2016

Assuming that everything really happened the way that it did (I understand members are going to say I only have one version of the story to go by) I can't figure for the life of me why supernatural forces would reveal my feelings to her.

Because I can't be sure the crush is mutual then my feelings for her are none of her business until it becomes established without ambiguity what she feels. If she only likes me as a good work friend and colleague then it was just as well that I never did anything too obvious to reveal my crush on my own.

First priority should go and talk to a priest or pastor or some other person who believes things like this could happen and explain their theory as to why an unseen force would ghost write a note.

March 25, 2016

Is it ever a good idea to use friends to communicate to a woman that I like her? What if those friends of mine happen to be supernatural forces like angels who ghostwrite a note to the woman I have a crush on?

For those of you who are skeptical about the supernatural you can stop reading this thread now and save your breath because I already know what angle you are coming from when you give advice. It is kind of hard for me to take advice seriously from those who have never witnessed anything supernatural in their lives. If you haven't experienced it for yourself then you are not in a position to be of help to those who have.

Here's the back story. I've had a crush on a female work colleague for the last year and a half. Before the crush developed I had been working with her regularly for over 10 years. I started to distance myself and reduce contact with her after the crush developed.

So anyway last Christmas I felt the desire to send a Christmas card to her. I did not as we are just work colleagues. So I figured it would be more appropriate to address the entire working staff instead. My supervisor put the card up on the break room bulletin board.

Apparently several days went by and nobody read the card as they didn't think to look to the board. So according to my mutual friend source (very reliable) after 5 days this piece of paper suddenly appears out of nowhere and then part of a hand appeared writing in blue marker the words "PlEASE READ".

So that got all my work colleagues attention in the break room and my crush witnessed this appearance too. At that point word got out and everybody read the card.

Another reason I believe my mutual friend not only because of his history of being a reliable witness and honest is also that many of my work colleagues behavior changed towards me after that. They look at me in awe and question if I am even human. One of them commented to me about how they think I am an angel.

Well fast forward to 2 weeks later. By this time everybody has read the card. But something strange happens that evening. The card disappears and reappears in my crush's car. This time all the words I wrote on the card addressing happy holidays to everyone just disappeared. Instead somebody wrote a personal note in my name to my crush apparently revealing to her that I have liked her ever since August of 2014.

No human being could have written this note. I certainly didn't write it. If what my mutual friend is telling me is true then I believe an angel wrote the note to my crush revealing my interest in her.

Another way I know that some angel friends from heaven got the word out to her is how my crush has behaved toward me since the card disappeared from the breakroom that night. She had been more encouraging of our communications that were not work related. She started touching me more on my arm. She has never touched me before. She has given more compliments since then about my looks, attire and work performance and how nice and quiet I am when doing my job and saying I'm unlike many other guys she comes in contact with.

When she hears another work colleague calling my name and asking a work related question she will attempt to answer for me as if she had my name.

So assuming that my sources are correct in what they are telling me this woman has become aware of my crush without my permission and through some supernatural source.

So to those female members who believe in the supernatural if you received strong evidence of a guy communicating his interest to you through supernatural forces such as an unseen force ghostwriting a note and making it appear in your home or car out of nowhere would you find that cowardly and be turned off? Would you attempt to talk back to the supernatural source to pass a message back to the guy?

I think my crush might have showed the card to some others at work. They probably would believe it was supernatural too since they had seem the card before and can't explain how the words disappeared and changed. An angel did a leak and I don't know what to do about it. No I still have not asked her out.

Not sure I get the question - this kind of stuff happens to me every day. As in, angels ghostwrite random stuff to people close to me all the time. I'm surprised it's the first time it's happened to you, tbh...

Yesterday, one the angels (the blonde one, I think) ghostwrote a text to my partner (I was totally unaware of it) asking him to bring an Indian takeway instead of the cinema date we had originally planned because I wasn't really myself - well, my partner came with my favourite Indian order an hour later!

March 25, 2016

Not sure I get the question - this kind of stuff happens to me every day. As in, angels ghostwrite random stuff to people close to me all the time. I'm surprised it's the first time it's happened to you, tbh...

Yesterday, one the angels (the blonde one, I think) ghostwrote a text to my partner (I was totally unaware of it) asking him to bring an Indian takeway instead of the cinema date we had originally planned because I wasn't really myself - well, my partner came with my favourite Indian order an hour later!

Yeah but that's different than someone ghostwriting a note that reveals a crush on a work colleague. In my case if it did happen that way then it is kind of borderline invasion of privacy. My thoughts about her are private. If I didn't reveal my thoughts on my own then it is probably because I determined in my judgment that it was none of her business.

Having a crush on someone is not a crime provided that the behaviors are not following the thoughts. Everyone is entitled to think whatever they want in their head as long as they behave themselves. That's why cops have no authority to arrest people based on what a person is thinking in their head.

I just hope this angel doesn't tell her other private things such as the fact that I masturbate to my crush every night.

Edited March 25, 2016 by Kirk85

March 25, 2016

Yeah but that's different than someone ghostwriting a note that reveals a crush on a work colleague. In my case if it did happen that way then it is kind of borderline invasion of privacy. My thoughts about her are private. If I didn't reveal my thoughts on my own then it is probably because I determined in my judgment that it was none of her business.

Having a crush on someone is not a crime provided that the behaviors are not following the thoughts. Everyone is entitled to think whatever they want in their head as long as they behave themselves. That's why cops have no authority to arrest people based on what a person is thinking in their head.

I just hope this angel doesn't tell her other private things such as the fact that I masturbate to my crush every night.

Angels might not be able to reveal things like masturbation, that's not very angelic.

PrettyEm, I would've preferred the Indian too. You're so lucky that the text was ghostwritten. Perhaps that's a sign you need to speak up more about what you want. If the blonde angel didn't step in, you might have spent the evening in the cinema when you really didn't want to. Yay Angel. (Do you know his name?)

March 25, 2016

Angels might not be able to reveal things like masturbation, that's not very angelic.

PrettyEm, I would've preferred the Indian too. You're so lucky that the text was ghostwritten. Perhaps that's a sign you need to speak up more about what you want. If the blonde angel didn't step in, you might have spent the evening in the cinema when you really didn't want to. Yay Angel. (Do you know his name?)

But some people might actually have a social communication glitch/disorder that limits their ability to communicate directly about what they want and an angel recognizes this and becomes a power of attorney. I'm not saying that's the case with the poster above me who posted the story about the text but it might apply in my case. It is not just with dating relationships but even in relationships with friends and family and coworkers I have a hard time communicating what I really want because I am the type who wants to accommodate others the best I can and not offend anyone.

March 25, 2016

Angels might not be able to reveal things like masturbation, that's not very angelic.

PrettyEm, I would've preferred the Indian too. You're so lucky that the text was ghostwritten. Perhaps that's a sign you need to speak up more about what you want. If the blonde angel didn't step in, you might have spent the evening in the cinema when you really didn't want to. Yay Angel. (Do you know his name?)

I know, right? I Didn't get the name though - like OP describes it, it's more like a superhero that comes at random times and saves the day by ghostwriting notes or texts (I had a couple of emails too). I also get the vibe that the blonde one is very much an introvert (as is often the case with superhero angels, IME).

Kirk85, I don't think you should worry about the masturbation thing - like scorpiogirl said, that's not in the angelic code of practice. From my experience, they like to help rather than hinder people's chances.

So what was your crush's reaction to this intervention?

March 25, 2016

I know, right? I Didn't get the name though - like OP describes it, it's more like a superhero that comes at random times and saves the day by ghostwriting notes or texts (I had a couple of emails too). I also get the vibe that the blonde one is very much an introvert (as is often the case with superhero angels, IME).

Kirk85, I don't think you should worry about the masturbation thing - like scorpiogirl said, that's not in the angelic code of practice. From my experience, they like to help rather than hinder people's chances.

So what was your crush's reaction to this intervention?

Well my crush is probably pretending not to know anything. But as I said in the first post her behavior has changed towards me somewhat as far as touching me for the first time and complimenting me more and encouraging conversations. But that could just be coincidence as there's alot of ambiguity. At least I still have my job and there's no evidence that she has complained to HR about sexual harassment. Very unlikely that I am under investigation. It has been 2 months since this ghost writing incident allegedly happened. So at the very least she's not reacting with disgust.

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