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What does it mean when your boyfriend says "I see us going somewhere" ?


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My boyfriend and I have been dating for 6 months, said he deleted his online dating profile as soon as he met me, right after our first date becaue he sees us going somewhere. I know guys sometimes say things they dont mean. For example.. i see us going somewhere... not necessarily being together in the future just going somewhere like towards a break up?..I don't know im probably over thinking it and looking for a reason to be suspisious because im scared of falling in love one day. Maybe soon idk. but guys can be sneeky and say things only to make a girl feel nice. like a few weeks ago my boyfriend said i love you as i was getting out the car for work, and i talked to him about it later to see if we were stepping our relationship up a notch, and he said he might of said it too early and wasn't ready for that yet.Tbh I'm not either, I want to get to know him more and build a deeper connection but I wasent the one who blurted it out like he did ? hes lucky I wasent in love with him yet or id be extremly upset...but Now im afraid if he doesnt love me now he never will. But a three days ago he was so happy because i agreed to go to his grandparents anniversary party to meet litterally his whole family. ? . So maybe theres potential for love. Any ways..should I have a reason to be worried or suspicious or am I being a bit crazy?

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You're being a bit crazy. This all sounds good - so relax, enjoy and see where it goes. Whatever you do, don't undermine the relationship with paranoia.

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