eddpad Posted March 24, 2016 Posted March 24, 2016 So I've been dating this girl for 3 months. Things were ultimately going well and progressing. I'd say things picked up a little over a month when we started spending weekends with each other, sleep-overs, I met her friends and we spent all of Valentines with each other. We even had a brief chat about how we felt about each other, where we both affirmed feelings and desire to keep seeing each other. Last weekend, I went out with her, her best friend and her bf to go dancing and I ended up spending the night. I noticed after that night she was a bit off, and then about a week later I get a text at about 4AM saying she got scared that things were getting too serious and added that she didn't feel the right chemistry. I thought the text was ****ty. I'd think at that point you at least can give the common courtesy of calling someone and tell them no. Has anyone been in this situation? I also texted her and said I'd like to at least talk to her on the phone, and she wrote me back today saying she can ring me tonight or early next week. This girl is also extremely reserved and guarded. She has a tough time opening up to people either verbally or physically, and she openly admits to it. Not sure if that has anything to do with her decision or being scared.
smackie9 Posted March 24, 2016 Posted March 24, 2016 just back off and let her come to you. She might just need some time to reflect on what she wants.
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