Whatialreadyknow Posted March 24, 2016 Posted March 24, 2016 Met a girl at the start of the year and it's just ended. I'm a little embarssrd to be taking it so badly after only a few months hence why I'm here rather than speaking to my friends about it. When we first met she said she wasn't in a great place for a relationship but one thing led to another and since we both liked eachother it got there anyway. But the last few weeks she went really cold and stop making any offer to see each other. She said she is exhausted from work, is a little depressed and just wants to get stoned and sleep when she is finished (she works most days and long shifts which caused some friction because I work normal hours and have more time to myself). Anyway I asked if she wanted to end it and she said no she adores me and knows I'm special but sometimes just feels it isn't right - but that she worries it's just her frame of mind just now. Anyway we broke up because we kept bickering over her saying she didn't want to end it but never making any effort and now she is away home to visit her family for a week- they live elsewhere and she never sees them It's been tough to take and I can't stop thinking about her even though it was only a few months and deep down I know we maybe weren't suited. I hope she gets back in touch after having time to clear her head but I know deep down that it's not going to happen. I have been close to messaging her to tell her I don't want this to be the end but worry it's pointless, will drag it out and push her further away if she was feeling suffocated anyway. Rant over. Tell me what I already know please. 1
Rachel39 Posted March 24, 2016 Posted March 24, 2016 I'm sure some one with some good advice will come along but I'm just out of a long term relationship so I'm going through the heartbreak. The one thing I do know is contact some one doesn't help infact it probably pushes them further away and makes you feel even worse about it all. 1
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