Is this long distance relationship worth it.

[Candace21]

I've been dating my boyfriend for 4 months now. The second month of us knowing each other, we both said we are in love with each other. We are two hours away from each other and I've been taking the train to see him because he doesn't have a car at the moment. He doesn't have a job so he collects unemployment. Out of the 4 times I've seen him, he rented a car twice to take me home. And he's been looking for a car since we met. I thought our relationship was going well because we both talked about our goals in life. He have gave me good advice and seemed to care about my feelings. There seems to be a problem, I don't think he's in love with me. Lately, he sits around and watch movies all day for what he tells me over the phone. He doesn't engage into some of the things I talk about over the phone. Which results in complete silence over the phone. I recently spent time with him and he spent most of his time on his phone while we cuddled. He recently told me " if any woman gave me 10k to have sex with her, I will". I was upset that he told me that so I brought up how I felt about him saying that twice. He didn't apologize for saying that and he told me he meant what he said. He does things at the last minute. Since we've been dating, he told me stories of how he was so close to purchasing a car from Craigslist but each car was sold. I feel though I might just love him and not be in love because hes not doing much for himself in order for our relationship to work well in the future. Also, I'm a Christian and he's agnostic which is kinda hard for me to talk about God with him. Any advice?

[Scarlett.O'hara]

I'm struggling to see why you actually want to be with this guy? He has no ambition other than to sit on his butt all day on his phone, watching movies, and fantasizing about being a high price male gigolo.

 

Do you really see your future with a guy with morals like that?

[LittleTiger]

In short...no, it's not worth it.

 

What exactly are you getting from this relationship? It seems pointless and isn't even making you happy! Move on.

[Candace21]

You all are right. I've been thinking of how me and him will work out in the future but I don't even see any effort on his end. I've told him before that our long distance relationship is hard and he keeps saying we will work it out.