jamie353352 Posted March 23, 2016 Posted March 23, 2016 I have been in a friends with benefits relationship for a year and a few months. When we first started we would see each other a few days a week and we would always meet at his house. Story cut down short. When we started going out he told me we were free to go and sleep with other people since he considered getting other friends with benefits. I agreed because at that time i was only looking for something temporary and superficial. Now we have blured the lines so much that both of us are confused. In January we celebrated each others birthdays. He came over to my party and I threw him a party. He had a good time and even told me that it was pretty amazing that i remebered his bday. A few days later he calls me and we are flirting and talking on the phone and he tells me that he loved me a little bit in Spanish. Then he said he knew i was in love with him but he wasn't as crazy as I was. So then he asked me "Im a friend is that all I am?' and I told him, "no. You're more than a friend" I teased hima and told him that to him I was just a friend. His answer caugh me by supirse. He told I was more than that. Unfortunately I said something that I regretted right afterwards. I told him some other guy asked me out to go out with him on new years. Next thing I know he starts telling me if I went out with that other guy and what did i end up doing that night. I asked him why he was upset and he flatly admitted he was jeolous. Ever since we hit the 6 month mark as friends with benefits he's become more jealous and he even told me that if I went with another guy I needed to let him know so he could dump my arse. :/ So why did he go from "Do whatever you Want" to "Who else has been touching you? If you still want me around, you can't see anyone else"I'm really confused. One day he says he loves me and the next he cares for me as a friend...
Author jamie353352 Posted March 23, 2016 Author Posted March 23, 2016 He dissapeared on me for a month and didnt call me because his phone broke. He went to my house one night, and knocked at my door while I wasnt there. My sister answered the door and told him I wasnt home. He asked where I was and she told him I was hanging out with my best friend. He and my FWB have been childhood friends. so he knew exactly where to find me. My sister gave me a heads up and sure enough he showed up. He has kept our affair on the down low when it comes to my best friend, because my FWB believes he has feelings for me. When we started going out he told me we were free to go and sleep with other people since he considered getting other fwb. I agreed because at that time i was only looking for something temporary and superficial. Now we have blured the lines so much that both of us are confused.Not to mention due to our previous relationships we are afraid of actually trying something.
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