Thisismyusername111 Posted March 23, 2016 Posted March 23, 2016 Alright so I am 19 and my now ex girlfriend is 16. We were together for nearly a year and a half before she stated "Our personalities are too different and I don't love you anymore" with that being said, before I started acting like an idiot we were fantastic I loved her more than anything and she loved me probably even more. We had little to no problems and we never fought or thought about breaking up. The further into the relationship we got, the more I started acting like someone I wasn't. I never showed her the affection and attention she wanted and I never thought anything of it. I loved her but I never prioritized her. I still have no idea why I was acting the way I did. It's been almost a week since she broke up with me and there has been no contact whatsoever. I truly want her back because I feel as if I have changed and the break up really gave me a reality check. I know I can be the person she fell in love with and not the one she broke up with. I have now realized everything I did wrong and I want her back more than anything the only thing being is that she said she's not in love with me anymore. I still want to try and convince her that I'm the one for her but I just want to know your guys opinions on if it's really worth it. Thanks for reading, I'd really appreciate the feedback.
Steven1 Posted March 23, 2016 Posted March 23, 2016 As much as it's a tough pill to swallow mate, trying to 'convince' someone to love you, never ends well. It never ends well in general when it's come to the point of trying to prove to someone you've changed, if anything I think if you want her to notice you have she will anyway (depending on what exactly you were doing at the time etc that caused the break up). You are both still very young and got into a relationship (more so for her) at a very young age, I often found more so at her age and even yours that when people do break up, it's still hurts as much as it would any relationship, but I think it's easier to move on as you both still have a lot ahead of you as (her again more so, but still you) are still in your teen years. You are by no means a kid, but you're still young. If there has been no contact then just give her time and space and see if she contacts you, if it's not clear if there is a line of no contact, send her a text etc and see if she replies, if she doesn't send another text in a week or so, if still no reply then I think that sadly she will probably stick to no contact. Try to explain in a text or a call that you made mistakes etc and admit that you could have done things better/differently, but try not to come across as though she has no option BUT to take you back, as that can often lead to being pushed further away.
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