eugene3 Posted March 23, 2016 Posted March 23, 2016 Been with a girl over 2 years engaged worked and lived together. Had some issues over the relationship from the start. We both cheated on the past on each other and had serious trust issues. Anyway she worked for me this whole time lived with me I paid for everything for her since she didn't want to ever really work which was fine as long as she helped me with my business. My friends became her only friends and still are currently. We broke up I initiated it about 7 months ago for 3 weeks and then I found out she been staying with another guy. Eventually she came back denied she did anything with him and we continued on. The guy she was with was friends with her since she was 18 and he befriends her parents at that time and hung out with her dad ever since the last breakup. Any we started to have issues again I was feeling different about her didn't wa t to have sex , cuddle or even see her. I don't know why but I just felt different and she started to notice then she became unhappy. I told her it was bc of stress from the business that to hang in there. Few more weeks go by she went out drinking got drunk came home and snapped out. Saying I'm a cheater and start beating on me. At one point she slid and fell and broke her ankle. I took her home to ice her ankle and called a friend to come take her to hospital to get it looked at. She ended up breaking ankle. She wanted then to go to her mothers house and her mother said not until you put a pfa on him and she does. Next thing I know I'm in jail for domestic fight. I get out of jail next day she back hanging with that guy again. So since she stated to a friend that she started the fight and I didn't do anything it was her and she started it bc she wanted out of the relationship. She tried dropping charges they won't let her. So we have to go to court she claims she won't show up. She tells my friends that she hates me and she never wants to see me again that she talking to someone and she want to keep pfa on me to leave her alone. Over the last 2 weeks she been talking to a mutual friend of ours and calls her asking how I'm doing and where am I all the time. She creeping on my fb and Instagram and ask my friend questions about it. She refuse to give ring back. She gets mad about who I hire at my business and also tells our friends that I better not be seeing this or that girl etc. I don't understand why she in my life still. I have not talked to her in a month but she calls my friend or text every day asking questions. My friend tells her it's not her business but she don't get it.
Author eugene3 Posted March 23, 2016 Author Posted March 23, 2016 Anyone please give me feedback on what this girl is doing ?
hechicera Posted March 24, 2016 Posted March 24, 2016 Just my opinion... Only she would know what is going through her mind, but it shouldn't be your problem. You already went to jail for this girl, that should be enough problems for you, she already stated she wanted out of the relationship and it sounds like it wasn't a strong stable relationship to begin with anyway, be thankful you didn't end up married to this person! She doesn't have any right to tell you what you should do or who you should date, so you shouldn't let this bother you and just move on. If I was you I would tell your friend to keep you out of it, the fact that they are telling you she's calling and asking about you is not helping you move on. It sounds like even though you are not together, she still wants to have control over your you and she can only do that if you allow her to. Same with the ring. Good luck!!
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