Country_Girl Posted March 23, 2016 Posted March 23, 2016 I'm just curious on what guys say, gals say, or maybe it's just me. When I exit a relationship, doesn't matter if I am the dumper or dumpee, after a few months, I tend to see my ex as non-attractive. Not saying they weren't good looking, but all of a sudden I am not attracted to them what so ever and would not want to sleep with them again. So my question is for both the Guys and Gals... After a few months after a breakup, do you still find your former partner attractive enough so that you would sleep with them again, or do you see them more in a friend type of light?
Shining One Posted March 23, 2016 Posted March 23, 2016 After a few months after a breakup, do you still find your former partner attractive enough so that you would sleep with them again, or do you see them more in a friend type of light?Guy here. I can and have slept with several of my exes after a breakup. I have never wanted to re-enter a relationship with them though.
TaraMaiden2 Posted March 23, 2016 Posted March 23, 2016 gal here. It wasn't necessarily their looks that attracted me to them in the first place. So for me, the question is moot. 1
Toodaloo Posted March 23, 2016 Posted March 23, 2016 Girl here If it was just looks that attracted me no. I see every single tiny wincy little flaw and it becomes massive in my eyes If it was personality (usually is) that attracted me then yes. I will even go so far as to introduce them to other female friends etc after a suitable length of time. Because while they may not be for me I will still want them to be happy in life. Sleep with an ex... Erm no. Thats not really my thing. 1
TheArtist Posted March 23, 2016 Posted March 23, 2016 Guy here. Ew. I'm with Toodaloo here. While I didn't see their flaws when I was dating them, after a few months their flaws are just huge, wobbling puss-filled zits on their personality, especially if it was a bad break up. It's as if breaking up lets you see what the person was really like underneath the glossy exterior. A turd in a veil, if you will. I don't think that's a real phrase, but you heard it here first!
WaitingForBardot Posted March 23, 2016 Posted March 23, 2016 I like all my exes and remember them fondly; the qualities that attracted me to them in the first place continue to make them attractive to me after we break up. And as a rule I don't sleep with exes although there was this one time I did after a mutual breakup solely due to distance (in all likelihood we would have stayed together had she not moved).
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