tiger9623 Posted March 23, 2016 Posted March 23, 2016 A few month ago my girlfriend and i broke up. This was because i was always away at school and i could only see her during breaks and when i had the chance to go home. i thought this would make us both happy. but i was wrong, dead wrong. i found myself thinking about her every day and every night. i would always think that she was with someone else who could make her happy. i always hated the images of her with someone else that i would see in my head. then, For a while i had intentions to fix things between us but i wanted to face to face. now it is spring break and i am home. after just a day i heard that she was pregnant. i thought it was mine and honestly i was okay with that. but i had to make sure. so i asked her if she was pregnant, of course she said yes. then i asked her if i was the father and she said no. at first i was fine, then things got worse. i asked her who the father was and how he felt about it. she told me who it was that he didnt want anything to do with her or the baby. and that he said it was her fault she was pregnant. she told me she still loved me and that this whole thing was a big mistake and that she should have never been with that guy. she said shes never stopped loving me and that she thought i didnt want her anymore. after she told me this i realized that everything i had feard most had come true. someone had been with her and to make it worse they got her pregnant. and i had lost the woman i love to an idiot only thinking with his d*ck. i still love this girl very much. and miss her dearly. and would give anything to be with her again. but idk where to go with this. Do i try to make it work and help her raise this baby or do i move on and try to forget her? im torn and i need guidance.
CarrieT Posted March 23, 2016 Posted March 23, 2016 How old are you and how do you feel raising another man's child? (Another man who will likely still be in the picture as the legal father?) I say let her go....
Author tiger9623 Posted March 23, 2016 Author Posted March 23, 2016 i am 21, so is she. and why do you say let her go?
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