what456 Posted June 15, 2005 Posted June 15, 2005 WHEN YOU TELL A GUY YOU LOVE THEM...and they say "I know you do" with a smile on their face....what does that mean? but they dont say it back... It means that they don't right? or they just can't say it? the same guy about 2 years ago told me he loved me, but when i didn't respond he said he was joking...do you think that it really was a joke. i love him then and still do...so now i just say it to him. I don't think he believes me until i finally travelled across the country to tell him... what do you guys think?
Author what456 Posted June 15, 2005 Author Posted June 15, 2005 what do you mean "what goes around comes around"?
ImaManDammit Posted June 15, 2005 Posted June 15, 2005 Originally posted by what456 what do you mean "what goes around comes around"? It think it means if you said it and he felt the same it should have come around. His non response indicates that he hasn't made up his mind, or even not looking to explore that path.
Guest Posted June 15, 2005 Posted June 15, 2005 No, he meant that originally, when he said he loves you and you didnt respond, "what goes around, comes around" meaning he said he loved you first, 2 years ago, you didnt reciprocate this exchange i.e. I LOVE YOU TOO SO NOW.... He is basically giving you a non commital response as you did, 2 years ago..... However, why take it so heavy???? Is it truly necessary to hear the 3 little words? Why dont you go on how you feel? And no, I dont think he was just joking 2 years ago. I think your lack of reciprocation and response made him feel uneasy as if he said it when the time wasnt right, or maybe you didnt feel the same........ If he said it in the first place, he can say it again. Just ask him. Maybe it is payback for all the times he said he loved you and you didnt respond!!! Ask Him!!! What have you got to lose? You already traveled across the country to tell him! My as well go all the way!
lindya Posted June 15, 2005 Posted June 15, 2005 I don't suppose you'll be wanting to say it again in a hurry.
westernxer Posted June 15, 2005 Posted June 15, 2005 Originally posted by Guest No, he meant that originally, when he said he loves you and you didnt respond, "what goes around, comes around" meaning he said he loved you first, 2 years ago, you didnt reciprocate this exchange i.e. I LOVE YOU TOO SO NOW.... He is basically giving you a non commital response as you did, 2 years ago..... Bullseye.
Author what456 Posted June 15, 2005 Author Posted June 15, 2005 well, i asked him in the past on the phone and he said "no" - flat out. But he jokes around alot and i wasn't sure if he was joking then too. but this time when i said it to his face he said "i know you do" with a huge smile. the wierd thing is that when i saw him after two years he wanted to do anything and everything for me. I booked a suite for me at the marriott and took me out to an expensive restaurent. he kept asking me what else i wanted...but there was nothing i wanted except for spending time with him. when i saw him he was so happy to see me. the whole time he had a smile on his face from ear to ear and often turned red. then reason why i didn't respond to his "i love you" because it really caught me off guard when he told me he did. i wanted to say the same back however, before i could say anything he was like "oh, i was joking..hahahah". that's why i am so unsure about his feelings for me.....
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