og19 Posted March 22, 2016 Posted March 22, 2016 I am 19 years old.I'm single. But I have sex with nsa a lot of the time. Most everyone currently is single except this one guy. He's a weird one tbh. He's married to some woman. And for me it's not really much different from any other encounter I have with those who are single. I don't want anything as far as a relationship neither does he. It's simply sex. How can this really go wrong for me?
mrs rubble Posted March 22, 2016 Posted March 22, 2016 I am 19 years old.I'm single. But I have sex with nsa a lot of the time. Most everyone currently is single except this one guy. He's a weird one tbh. He's married to some woman. And for me it's not really much different from any other encounter I have with those who are single. I don't want anything as far as a relationship neither does he. It's simply sex. How can this really go wrong for me? His wife could find out, be angry and seek revenge?
Author og19 Posted March 22, 2016 Author Posted March 22, 2016 His wife could find out, be angry and seek revenge? what kind of revenge? on me? I doubt it. How? If she told anyone I really wouldn't even care too much. She doesn't know anyone in my social circle. I wouldn't be phased by it.
ses Posted March 22, 2016 Posted March 22, 2016 You're choosing to be the OW. Why pursue someone who's already attached? You can develop feelings and want to break up their marriage. There are so many stories here — just look at the Infidelity/OM/OW forums. You can get pregnant and/or be infected with an STI, and you'll be alone to deal with it as your partner already has a family. What can go wrong? A LOT. 1
mrs rubble Posted March 22, 2016 Posted March 22, 2016 what kind of revenge? on me? I doubt it. How? If she told anyone I really wouldn't even care too much. She doesn't know anyone in my social circle. I wouldn't be phased by it. She could damage your property, physically bash you, destroy your reputation in the workplace (if you work)...there are several ways a woman scorned could seek revenge on the "tramp that seduced my husband"
Author og19 Posted March 22, 2016 Author Posted March 22, 2016 You're choosing to be the OW. Why pursue someone who's already attached? You can develop feelings and want to break up their marriage. There are so many stories here — just look at the Infidelity/OM/OW forums. You can get pregnant and/or be infected with an STI, and you'll be alone to deal with it as your partner already has a family. What can go wrong? A LOT. My bad I really didn't give a lot of detail. I am a guy. So I can't get pregnant and plus he always insists I use protection and I actually would like to do more than that but yeah there's none of those risks involved currently. And he doesn't have a family. He does want a family with her though. But I am not stopping him from doing that. I don't want a family a relationship or anything like that with him. I am just a college kid I don't want a relationship with anyone tbh. What does OW mean? I actually originally pursued him because I actually felt like he wasn't attached. Like you can tell some people if you're like perceptive. That's more about his commitment with her though. I didn't create it myself though. I have nothing to really do with that.
Author og19 Posted March 22, 2016 Author Posted March 22, 2016 She could damage your property, physically bash you, destroy your reputation in the workplace (if you work)...there are several ways a woman scorned could seek revenge on the "tramp that seduced my husband" Yeah I don't work. I am a fulltime student. She doesn't know anyone that could ruin my reputation tbh. Like I said I don't know the lady she doesn't know me.
Cinnamonstix Posted March 22, 2016 Posted March 22, 2016 OW = other woman. Obviously you would be the OM (other man) in this case with a MM (married man) As for what could go wrong... Would you not feel guilty for potentially hurting the MM's wife? I get the feeling you're not the most empathetic person or just may lack the relationship experience to know how much it hurts to lose someone you love, but maybe you could think a bit about what could go wrong for the other people involved, not just yourself.
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