Confuzed456 Posted March 22, 2016 Posted March 22, 2016 I was with my girlfriend for three years. I loved her probably from the day I met her. I even asked her to marry me and she agreed. Now...Looking back... I don't know if she loved me as much. She's insecure. So insecure that she's cheated.... Repeatedly. Lied consistently and is possibly the most manipulative person I ever met. And I still loved her as crazy as that sounds. She recently ended it by blaming me for all of my shortcomings. Apparently I'm not good enough for her. Then says she wants to be friends. Then I found out a week later from her family that she's currently seeing someone new. And now I feel terrible. :( I know I should be happy she's gone. At least that's what my friends and family think but I don't. For some reason I keep blaming myself. Feeling like everything is my fault. Like I'm unlovable or something.
GorillaTheater Posted March 22, 2016 Posted March 22, 2016 Sounds like she did one hell of a number on your head. The good new is, with time and distance, you'll realize that ultimately she did you a favor. Stay strong, and you can handle this. 2
Firstheartbreaksux Posted March 22, 2016 Posted March 22, 2016 Its normal to over anaylize and think "what could I have done better ?" Don't beat yourself up over it, you against yourself is never a fair fight. You mentioned her true colors, repeat them to yourself as often as you need to. Refuse to feel bad for one moment longer than you have to. Listen to your close family and friends, theyre the ones that love you, and that you need to focus your love on now. Take care bud. 1
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