guest Posted June 15, 2005 Posted June 15, 2005 here it goes.. i am confused... so, i meet my ex after a really, really long time. about 3 years after we break up. we always maintained contact on the phone (like every week). My ex lives like 2 hours (by plane) away from me so I decide to go see him. to my surprise he has not only booked a place for me so stay (at the Hilton hotel) but also made some reservations at a really upscale restaurent. the whole weekend was really nice. he catered to all my needs and we had a great time. he seemed really happy to see me there and smiled from ear to ear the whole time(even in his sleep). the best part of it all was that we never had sex..even when we dated or this weekend. we shared a slow, tender, sweet kiss...and that was it. my ex remembered things (details) about me. things i didn't think he would rememeber because we dated for seven months and probably saw each other about..5 times...but spent days together (if that makes sense). but here is the kicker. when i left him we were both teary eyed and i told him that i really cared for him. (i actually broke up with him three years ago because he was still hung up on his ex...) so, when i came home that morning i didn't here from him...or anything. he called me the next day but it was very brief. i don't know what to expect from him. i don't know if he likes me or wants to be with me...it's so confusing....help!
kimmi46 Posted June 24, 2005 Posted June 24, 2005 He sounds like a very nice, classy guy. Putting you up at a hotel, smiling, genuinely seeming to have enjoyed your company. You want to know if he likes you still? Is there any chance of a reconciliation between you? Do you want for there for be? I would say yes, you do. Does he? Only one true way to find out.... Ask HIM. In a phone conversation or an email, just inquire. You tell him you had a great time visiting with him, and you are wondering if he sees a reconciliation ever happening between the two of you. If he says yes, then you have the answer. If he hum hos and acts like he isn't interested in getting back with you, well then you will at least know. I believe open communication is the ONLY way to make or break a relationship. Talk to the man.....
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