spouse2016 Posted March 21, 2016 Posted March 21, 2016 Infidelity is a form of spousal abuse. That is little else to say about it. It is a form of sexual sadism. It is a breach of trust which is no different than breach of trust event at work. As any organization, family comes with certain obligations to partner. If you do not like something then quit and do whatever. It is the same as no one would be working for the present employer's competitor. One has to quit and then go elsewhere. No sitting on two chairs. 1
dreamingoftigers Posted March 22, 2016 Posted March 22, 2016 Infidelity is a form of spousal abuse. That is little else to say about it. It is a form of sexual sadism. It is a breach of trust which is no different than breach of trust event at work. As any organization, family comes with certain obligations to partner. If you do not like something then quit and do whatever. It is the same as no one would be working for the present employer's competitor. One has to quit and then go elsewhere. No sitting on two chairs. I agree with you completely. Unapologetically.
Bee4Shine Posted March 23, 2016 Posted March 23, 2016 I agree that it is a terrible thing. But is there ever a path back? Does the relationship mean enough to forgive...if the cheating spouse is truly repentant and demonstrates that through actions, words and attitude?
Author spouse2016 Posted March 24, 2016 Author Posted March 24, 2016 As important as spousal relationships are.... they are the most disrespected. Employers, the state, various counter-parties... they all enforce integrity of their relationships... violations do occur, but they are not as common. Integrity of relationships has nothing to do with chattel like treatment as some attempt to claim. It is lack of integrity which amounts to chattel like treatment and oppression. It is rather obvious that in a relationship with chattels decisions are unilateral and without respect for chattels' feelings, interests, or opinions. Chattels (as counter-parties) simply do not have them.
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