JohnsonBaby Posted March 20, 2016 Posted March 20, 2016 If you tell a man you love him ,doesn't say it back ,but cuddles you a lot after sex (and he normally doesn't ) does it mean he feels something for you?
TaraMaiden2 Posted March 20, 2016 Posted March 20, 2016 Could be. If he won't actually vocalise affection - it could be the next best thing. Remember actions and words...? Demonstrative instead of vocal? There again, he may be gesturing appeasement. "If I give her a cuddle, she will feel reassured and not go on about it...." Hard to say, really......
preraph Posted March 20, 2016 Posted March 20, 2016 It certainly doesn't always mean anything. Men know women like to cuddle, so some of them do when they'd as soon roll over and go to sleep. But it does not mean they love you or anything like that. Nor does sex. 1
Author JohnsonBaby Posted March 20, 2016 Author Posted March 20, 2016 Could be. If he won't actually vocalise affection - it could be the next best thing. Remember actions and words...? Demonstrative instead of vocal? There again, he may be gesturing appeasement. "If I give her a cuddle, she will feel reassured and not go on about it...." Hard to say, really...... We normally don't cuddle ..if someone tells you they love you and you don't feel the same way,you wouldn't cuddle them afterwards ..I don't know ..
Popsicle Posted March 20, 2016 Posted March 20, 2016 I would interpret it as a pity cuddle. Like "There there, I'm sorry I don't love you back but here's a hug to make you feel better". 4
carhill Posted March 21, 2016 Posted March 21, 2016 If you tell a man you love him ,doesn't say it back ,but cuddles you a lot after sex (and he normally doesn't ) does it mean he feels something for you? Who have you heard him say ILY to? Cuddling after sex is a far healthier sign of sincere affection than rolling over and hitting the snooze button. True love? Sorry, can't read minds. 1
Mrs. John Adams Posted March 21, 2016 Posted March 21, 2016 My husband is a cuddler....he likes to cuddle before sex and after sex. He has also always said I love you....before during and after So I am not sure what you are looking for in your question. I am not sure we can answer for your man....perhaps you need to ask him 1
Gloria25 Posted March 21, 2016 Posted March 21, 2016 It certainly doesn't always mean anything. Men know women like to cuddle, so some of them do when they'd as soon roll over and go to sleep. But it does not mean they love you or anything like that. Nor does sex. My FWB bought me flowers, did repairs/handiguy stuff for me, we went out on dates, he slept over nite and/or stayed the weekends....in other words, didn't mean jack crap. Believe it or not, some men just want "company"...they'll do everything with you that they'd do with a SO - even a wife, but that doesn't mean they love you. I means they enjoyed your "company". 3
Emilia Posted March 21, 2016 Posted March 21, 2016 People are people. My ex didn't like cuddling but he loved me.
Shanex Posted March 21, 2016 Posted March 21, 2016 My FWB bought me flowers, did repairs/handiguy stuff for me, we went out on dates, he slept over nite and/or stayed the weekends....in other words, didn't mean jack crap. Believe it or not, some men just want "company"...they'll do everything with you that they'd do with a SO - even a wife, but that doesn't mean they love you. I means they enjoyed your "company". This is true of me, not necessarily love but the cold '15 minutes including shower and leave my place asap' ain't for me... I second the company part and being lovey dovey after sex.. but not excessively either.
big dog Posted March 22, 2016 Posted March 22, 2016 doesn't mean anything except he likes to cuddle afterward.... that's all. If he loves you you'll know it... you won't have to wonder. No matter if he tells you or not. I'd say at this point he most likely doesn't.
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