blueowl32 Posted March 20, 2016 Posted March 20, 2016 (edited) Love experts, tell me what you think please: Me and a tinder match went on a date after talking for like 2 weeks. I (the girl) was the one to initiate conversation. My question is I am not sure if he is genuinely interested in me or not now. Below are some signs during our 'date' - strolling in parks and on benches - We laughed a lot, he made fun of me, he asked me questions - Gave me compliments, said I am pretty, very nice, have a nice voice, nice shoes - He said 'I am leaving some suspense so we will have to meet again' by not answering completely my question - He lent me his scarf but said, no I cannot keep it. - He bought me coffee - I could feel he was enjoying my company and didn't want the date to end so quickly. - As we left, he asked if he could have a hug from me - An hour after we parted, he messaged me saying I am super cool, that it has been fun etc. I replied saying thanks for his company etc, and that I felt comfortable talking to him. - After like 2 hours he replied something more and said 'i am fun and attractive..keep contact' (with emojis). MY QUESTION IS IS HE GENUINELY INTERESTED OR HE IS JUST BEING COURTEOUS BY SAYING ALL THESE THINGS? He is a very well-mannered and polite in general so he might not want to sound rude by rejecting me. Also, if a guy really likes someone his text replies should not be SO SLOW right? Though before we meet, he has always been very slow in replying. What should I do now? How to stop thinking so much? THANKS EVERYONE. dating is supposed to be fun, but i care too much, it seems. I just want to be assured that he likes me, and if he is not, I can move on quickly and stop thinking so much. Edited March 20, 2016 by blueowl32
Seteeri Posted March 20, 2016 Posted March 20, 2016 Try not to read too much into a person's texting habits other than obvious signs such as maybe not replying for a month etc. Personally, I also suggest avoiding extensive conversations over text when you're first getting to know someone, and try to use it for simply setting up dates, following up, etc. especially for overthinkers like yourself It sounds like it went well, but you won't know until a second date is being planned!
Author blueowl32 Posted March 20, 2016 Author Posted March 20, 2016 Hi friend, He texted me saying 'keep contact ' rather than anything like we have to meet again...
Author blueowl32 Posted March 21, 2016 Author Posted March 21, 2016 What if I was acting too coy when he was hinting about the second date in person
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