LuckyxGuapa Posted March 20, 2016 Posted March 20, 2016 I got into a silly argument with my ex but it turned nasty. He called me a physco, mental and said I was unstable. This really hurt my feelings. I exploded on him, I was so angry and called him names I really regret. Later on, after I had calmed down, I felt awful and text him my sincerest apology. I would have called only I knew he wouldn't of answered. I hate having arguments with people or leaving things on bad terms. I have since tried to reach out to him to smooth things over but he's ignoring me. So I just sent one final message saying that I was sorry again and to take care. I don't know what's worse, feeling awful for resorting to name calling or now being ignored. I don't want a reconciliation with him, I would just like things to not be left on a bad note. 1
rbrt1986 Posted March 20, 2016 Posted March 20, 2016 People make mistakes. Forgive yourself and move on. 1
Steven1 Posted March 20, 2016 Posted March 20, 2016 To be honest going off what you said this wasn't all your fault at all really was it? He said things, you returned them, but at least you actually apologized, you've done your part and have nothing to feel bad about. You said yourself you don't want a reconciliation with him, and you texted an apology as well as tried to get in touch with him, you haven't left anything on a bad note in my opinion, you were the bigger person to apologize, something he hasn't done.
Author LuckyxGuapa Posted March 21, 2016 Author Posted March 21, 2016 Thanks for the replies I feel a bit better. I just have a massive conscience and I felt bad for what I said and also for lowering myself to his level. What I said to him, was probably 10 times worse than what he said to me, but I was angry and wanted to hurt him. What he said to me really hurt my feelings. I have since found out that he is dating my aunts husband's niece and she IS a pysco!! So good luck with that one ha ha
Rachel39 Posted March 21, 2016 Posted March 21, 2016 Being ignored is damaging, Iv felt so ill die to my ex ignoring me for the last 8 weeks whilst just trying to talk to him through text about our break up and him not saying a word. It's made me feel so ill Iv never come across this before some people don't realise just how damaging things can be to some one that actually loves you
Author LuckyxGuapa Posted March 21, 2016 Author Posted March 21, 2016 I know what you mean Rachael. It's a horrible feeling. Like you don't exist anymore. Ignoring someone is extremely damaging and is passive aggressive and abusive... although this will not cross the mind of the person doing the ignoring. I hate not knowing what he's thinking. I'd rather be told to go away than be ignored.
Zahara Posted March 21, 2016 Posted March 21, 2016 I know what you mean Rachael. It's a horrible feeling. Like you don't exist anymore. Ignoring someone is extremely damaging and is passive aggressive and abusive... although this will not cross the mind of the person doing the ignoring. I hate not knowing what he's thinking. I'd rather be told to go away than be ignored. This the same guy that didn't even want to pay you back 10 dollars? It's a break-up. Treat it as such. That means you have no more insight into his life and he has no more insight into your life. You're not supposed to know what he's thinking and you're not supposed to be contacting him. Ignoring you is telling you to go away. Silence is a response. If you want to leave things on a good note, then stay NC.
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