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Turning 40 and the new bracket


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When people specifically avoid their own age group, I wonder why that is.
A few years ago, I used to generally avoid women of my own age (late 20's / early 30's at that time). I don't want children. I had dated a few women in that age group who went from "I don't want kids" to "put a baby in me now" in a short period of time. Thus, that was my reason for avoiding my age group until I met my current girlfriend.
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Do you get interest from men in their 40s as well, as you did when you were actually in your 20s?

 

I find it weird how people date specifically older and younger, like what's wrong with people your own age? :confused:

 

I agree. I've always been attracted to women around my age. Never been interested in cougars or much younger girls.

 

A lot of men value women's youth and women value men's money so that is why you see the large gap relationships.

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A few years ago, I used to generally avoid women of my own age (late 20's / early 30's at that time). I don't want children. I had dated a few women in that age group who went from "I don't want kids" to "put a baby in me now" in a short period of time. Thus, that was my reason for avoiding my age group until I met my current girlfriend.

 

I totally get this one. I've had to turn down a lot of men who wanted kids. I got married and divorced young and am done with that part of life. I've dated a lot of single parents my age or older men who were done. I tend to find a lot of men in that age range are looking for their baby mama.

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Please don't think you can be mistaken in your 40s for someone in their 20s, no-one can. The reason young guys are interested is that they fantasise about older women. Don't let any man fool you or sweet talk you with fake compliments like that, you won't be doing yourself favours.

 

I still get carded. And people have told me they thought I was 21, they have no idea I am as old as I am. Fact.

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Tons of people tell me I look late 20s, not only guys. Men, women, teenagers, old people... everyone thinks I am around 15 years younger and grasp when I tell my age.

 

I don't have lines in my face, I weight 120 pounds to my 5'4.

 

I think you are generalizing... there are some people who look very young. Not everyone, but a few do.

 

Yeah a bouncer carded me a few years ago in my late 30s, it's a game! Come on people, it's a bit desperate to believe your own hype. No-one looks 15-20 years younger, it's a game some guys play to get around you. How can some people be so naive?
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Well it matters when younger men are interested in her sexual experience rather than anything more serious. I think women have the tendency to believe the sweet talk some men come up with and that is a problem.

 

Agree with the rest. I think everyone looks their age just in different ways. It's not a huge amount you can do to fight the loss of elasticity and I'd rather a man approached me because he was interested in 40 year-olds then because he wanted a 30 year-old and a family.

 

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