Need Relationship

[IronBoy98]

I am 17 years old and I have been dating my girlfriend for 3 years. We love each other very much. In the first year we have been dating I have talked to other girls 2-3 times. We have broken up but we always get back together. She has always remained loyal and has never done anything to hurt me. Back in November she started doing things I told her not to and i trust her a little less than I did before. I found out she was talking to another guy and we had talks and she is genuinely sorry and I believe her. The only problem is now I always think about her and the guy she talked to. I think about it all the time and it stops me from going out places because I'm afraid I will run into him. Sometimes I feel embarrassed to be with her because I feel everyone is judging us. I really love her and I think this is something special. Please help me out and tell me advice on how I could stop worrying less

[d0nnivain]

No one is judging you. Most people don't know anything about your relationship & honestly, they don't care about your relationship. They care about their own lives.

 

 

Instead of being worried about this other guy, hold your head up & be proud. Even if your GF talked to him, she still chose to date you. You won. He's the one who should be embarrassed.

[OneLov]

I am 17 years old and I have been dating my girlfriend for 3 years. We love each other very much. In the first year we have been dating I have talked to other girls 2-3 times. We have broken up but we always get back together. She has always remained loyal and has never done anything to hurt me. Back in November she started doing things I told her not to and i trust her a little less than I did before. I found out she was talking to another guy and we had talks and she is genuinely sorry and I believe her. The only problem is now I always think about her and the guy she talked to. I think about it all the time and it stops me from going out places because I'm afraid I will run into him. Sometimes I feel embarrassed to be with her because I feel everyone is judging us. I really love her and I think this is something special. Please help me out and tell me advice on how I could stop worrying less

 

First, stop talking to other girls.

 

Second, realize that the effect your behavior could have had on her and multiply it by 2 or 3.

 

Third, don't be that dude -- someone who can dish it but not take it. That's not being a "man," that is little boy stuff.

 

Fourth, don't try to control her like she's chattle. If she's not that into you or mature enough to stay committed, you should end the relationship.

 

Fifth, realize that in 2016, this relationship will not likely be your last. You're a kid for Christsakes -- go out and have fun. But always follow the Golden Rule.