Pisces females keeps giving me too many mixed signals!

[capricornreid]

Ok here's the shortest version of the situation with the most details possible, so bare with me...

(this has all taken place in 2.5 months...)

 

First off Im a Capricorn(21) and she's a Pisces(23)

 

We've known each other since we were 13 and 15(and Ive wanted her since then,trust me) but didnt grow up with each other , you know what I mean? But there's ALWAYS been attraction between the both of us since day one and we both know this. Throughout the years we'd briefly send a few texts here and there and like each others posts on IG or something..

 

So I turned 21 this year in January and on the night of my bday I got a text from her asking if I'd like to go out to the bar.. So that's what we did and ended up having a really great time and caught up on everything. We went on to continue seeing each other for the next two months VERY frequently(currently March right now)

 

We LITERALLY would text each other every single day since the night of my birthday. We had more in common than we both knew. The energy and connection that's always been there has grown to become strong as ever. We're both VERY in tune with our feelings,energy and intuition. Not only would we text every single day but we'd also spend A LOT of time with each other. She's a bit busier than I am with school and two jobs but that definitely didnt stop her from coming to see me so much, twice in a day on plenty of occasions.

 

We're both single and havent been in relationships for quite a little time now but right off the break, she had told me she was still in love with her ex of 5 yrs when we first started spending time together. She also went on to tell me about how she was never satisfied with his sex since she had taken his virginity, and about how she had been finding herself extremely horny( I guess this was her indirectly telling me she wants to have sex, since she also told me she wasnt looking for another relationship at the moment)

 

 

After 2wks of flirting,texting and being in each others presence so much..we ended up having sex for the first time. GREAT,GREAT,GREATTTT sex.. lol it was beautiful, trust me when I say that. After that night it seemed like that became routine for us.. We were both loving everything that was going on(not only because of sex..i told her from the get go I wasnt worried about having sex with her but instead actually wanted to get closer to her mentally and emotionally.) All throughout the great sex we were having, She told me that she's never had anything like it and how I make her body feel some type of way she's never felt before. These types of things were told to me regularly after a few nights in bed. lol I remember one time she called me outta the blue just to tell me I how great I was the night before.

 

Now this is where things started becoming different..

Like I said , she told me she didnt want a relationship on numerous occasions.. but we both know we have feelings for each other. We pretty much became friends with benefits and she really didnt like that, but I guess something about our situation had her weak.. She started to try to shy herslef away from at times but me being who I am I wouldnt really allow her to get too far away from me, cause I KNOW she's who I want to be with. I figured she wasnt expecting to get this emotionally involved with me and didnt know how to handle the way she started to feel for me. (exactly what she told me tbh) And I could understand that, but regardless of that..what we have here and how we feel for each other is REAL and she knows it..no denying that there. And I would encourage her to embrace the emotions she's been feeling and go with the flow because In reality she knows thats exactly what she wants, but she tried to convince herself otherwise. She'd even get jealous of other girls I associate with sometimes but she'd try not show it. But when you're in tune with someone then you already know.. A girl sent a pic to my phone while were layin on the couch and she started acting funny and asking questions after seeing that the girl was attractive..from what I know you only get jealous when you have feelings for someone..right?

 

She told me things like how she thinks she likes me too much, how she wasnt expecting things to get taken this far emotionally, how she feels like im a "distraction"(I really dont see how), how she doesnt want relationship ,How she doesnt want to keep having sex because its confusing things and making her grow closer to me(she doesnt seem to want to grow more with the relationship at times and idk why when its beyond clear she likes me and her energy tells me she wants me) which is all crazy to me because when we're together it feels exactly like we're a couple. I guess that's the part the scares her, and I guess its even more scary since she realizes that she's actaully liking whats been going on with us. And to be honest that would bother me, even if I could understand. I'd usaully have to ask a bunch of the right questions to get the right answers from her since Pisces arent that good at opening up to everything they think about.

 

Her bday was Mar.4th and she went to Miami with her two friends for a few days..everything was great before she left despite the mixed signals that were already around. We were still kissing and flirty and had sex the weekend before she left. I gave her some space to enjoy herself while she was there but when she got back home she was asking me why wasnt I texting her while she was there and I explained why. She went on to say how she thought I was entertaining other girls while she was gone, which i thought was funny because as good as she looks im sure she had a boat load of guys in her face the whole time she was in Miami..

 

A few days later we went to bar and she told me she believe she likes me too much for her on good(another sign that she's fighting the way she feels about us) It kind of messed my head of cause I swear.. one day she's hot and the next day shes cold.. she wants me today and then wants to keep her distance the next day.. So all of that plus the mixed signals from the earlier stages are KILLING me right about now.

 

A week later she called me about 4 AM and was a little drunk. She went on to tell me how she's been missing me and how she's been thinking about me and all this other stuff she continued to repeat, and she ended up coming to see me a hour later at 5AM before she went home(she had left the bar) So that alone kinda threw me off since she said she wanted to stop being so present around me (in so many words)

 

I called her and told her everything thats been on my mind about us, good and bad.. and I told her things about her that I didnt understand as to why she's fighting this feeling so damn much. She's know I really really like her cause I threw myself out there and made it be known after I realized I caught some feelings.. I told her a bunch of stuff that was nothing but FACTS about us and whats been going on and she couldnt deny a word of it. I wasnt angry with her but I was definitely stern and let her know what was being said was definitely meant. I guess she took it the wrong way or either just never had a guy really confront her and tell her some real Sh*t the way I did, idkk...Either way at the end of the conversation she was mad and told me that she's just gonna cut me off cause there's no need to go back and forth with someone who wasnt her "boyfriend" and I said fine and hung up on her. lol Like come on girl, How are you gettin mad at me because I'm telling you WHATS REAL?! Guess some ppl just cant handle the truth (as far as us being good for each other, whether it be in a relationship or not..she just doesnt wanna accept the fact that she likes me more than she probably wouldve thought)

 

So after that phone convo I went work... a Hour later she liked a pic on my Instagram..a hour after that she sent me a text saying " hey I apologize for reacting that way earlier, Im sorry..do you hate me" and I went on tell her that I wasnt mad,just simply telling her what's real here. She went on to tell me that we'll still be friends and how she'll always be here for me. That threw me off as well, cause its crazy how I witness her fight her feelings she has towards me.. Its like do you either want me or not??? Literally the day after that, she came over since I was off work and we were just chilling for a few hours.. Once we ended up back at my house , before she pulled off she told me AGAIN, that she feels like we've been spending too much time together and that she wants a little time to herself... Of course you could imagine how im feeling at this point of time.. Like didnt you LITERALLY just say this yesterday and then turn around just to say you were sorry and didnt mean it??? Just so you could come back the next day to say the same thing, AGAIN?!? I just dont get it!!! On the inside I was just so angry cause Its like why is this girl playing these games? Why cant she just embrace what we have??? She wants me and I want her to!

Even though all of her emotions can be overwhelming I still want her around me. I dont want her to go anywhere. Its crazy how we both feel the way we feel in such a short period of time, but like I said..we literally would text every single day and see each other A LOT! So when I asked why does she feel like she needs space now, she said that she "doesnt have to tell me"

 

Either way idk what to do you guys.. Ive expressed myself more than enough , and actions speak louder than words for sure..another reason why I KNOW she wants me.

So what should i do??? Should i keep on fighting for her and show her what we've started to establish with each other is real, even if we dont have "bf/gf" relationship..or should I just kick back and let her come back to me when she's ready? I know Pisces like to be chased and are shy so wont really make the first move.. So SHould I be the one to reach out to show that I care?? Its only been 4 days since Ive seen/heard from her as of now.. should I wait it out or act on impulse and intuition.. But even if I do hit her up, what am I supposed to say after ALLLL of this...let metell you ppl, this has been one hell of a emotional roller coaster..but I dont think Im ready to find another ride at the amusement park just yet..

 

 

I remember she asked me If I love her...I told her that I didnt but the funny thing is, a part of me WANTS to love her..

[Mccoy321]

I couldn't read beyond the Capricorn/Pisces information. If you're using this astrological hogwash as a significant way of describing either of you then your problems are far deeper than any temporal situation you find yourself in.

[capricornreid]

I literally just stated what our signs are..if you werent gonna read the whole post then what was your point of replying

[Mccoy321]

I literally just stated what our signs are..if you werent gonna read the whole post then what was your point of replying

 

The point is in the reply. But I am a Scorpio, we're mysterious you know.

[capricornreid]

but your reply is pointless if you didnt even touch bases on what I wrote..

[katiegrl]

She sounds VERY flakey (putting it mildly) ... so although her Sun Sign may be "Pisces" .... her Moon may be in Gemini, her Venus in Cancer, her Mars in Virgo, her Jupiter in Libra and her rising sign in Leo!

 

LOL, don't mean to make fun but basing anything on one's Sun Sign is a bit silly IMO.

 

That said, she apparently doesn't know what the hell she wants ......except NOT a relationship with you....and that she is still in love with her exc.

 

Why you kept pursuing her after she told you these things is beyond me.

 

Anyway, stop "fighting" for this ...it is having the opposite effect of what you want.

 

It is pushing her away further!

 

Pull back and see what happens.....

 

Better yet move on, but since we know you won't, just pull back...go no contact.

 

See what happens.

[Mccoy321]

but your reply is pointless if you didnt even touch bases on what I wrote..

 

I have Jupiter in Aquarius so trying to make sense of what I say is futile...particularly for a Capricorn.

[phineas]

Uranus?

 

sorry, couldn't help myself.

[SammySammy]

Sounds like you would be more compatible with a Taurus or Virgo. Forgo the Pisces for a while and see how that works out for you.

[truth_seeker]

Uranus?

 

That's where his head is...

 

J/K OP

[Mccoy321]

I literally just stated what our signs are..if you werent gonna read the whole post then what was your point of replying

 

The point is that if you say things like: 'I know Pisces like to be chased and are shy so wont really make the first move', then your problems run far deeper than this one situation. Astrology is the arse-end of any intellectual inquiry and the belief that one's personality can be discerned by looking at where the celestial spheres were at birth is mind boggling in the extreme.

[katiegrl]

The point is that if you say things like: 'I know Pisces like to be chased and are shy so wont really make the first move', then your problems run far deeper than this one situation. Astrology is the arse-end of any intellectual inquiry and the belief that one's personality can be discerned by looking at where the celestial spheres were at birth is mind boggling in the extreme.

 

I know a lot about astrology and I agree.

 

I was born end of June, which makes me Cancer .... I have almost zero qualities of a Cancer.

 

If anything I am more Gemini which is my moon sign.

 

And Taurus which is my rising.

 

My Venus is in Leo and have many Leo qualities too!

 

In fact, I probably possess more characteristics of every other sign than the one I was born under!

 

Also, many twins are very very different from each other, although obviously born under the same sun sign and every other sign!

 

Throw that astrology crap out the window, I am serious .

 

And move on from this chick.

 

If she were truly into you, other than how you make her body feel, she would want a RL with you.

 

The End.

Edited March 19, 2016 by katiegrl