Told her I don't want to see her or talk to her anymore now she is devastated

[the_dude100]

Following advice from my earlier post I told my married female friend that I came see her or talk to her. She replied back saying she was very sad and upset by my decision and could not belive I could just cut her off. She said I was a big part of her life and she could tall to me about anything. She goes this is not the end and said if I ever reached for her she would be there. Did I make the right decision?

[whichwayisup]

Yes you made the right decision. Don't doubt that and don't let her sadness and manipulation of tears guilt you back. Stay focused as to why you ended things.

 

She is hurting but she will be okay. You're gonna have to be strong, I wouldn't doubt that she tries more to reach out to you, especially with the guise of it being an 'emergency' and only you can help her.

[Poppy47]

It's her own fault that she's hurting.

 

Not your problem.

 

Poppy