am I thinking too much?

[jusessence]

Ive been in my boyfriend's life 16 years we were first love first everything bit when we broke up two years out of the years we had a child by someone else.however we got back together and had 3 children together but its been hard.I infidelity,lies,financial hardships and all but we have made it through that however im tired of bei g just a girlfriend.and recently his family member is getting married yet he is going alone.I feel like he is afraid of marriage being that his friend has been divorced twice but he wouldnt be happy if I decided to leave.what do I do?

[loveiswar101]

Think I get the gist of it. You've made it this far, is marriage that important?

[Satu]

Ive been in my boyfriend's life 16 years we were first love first everything bit when we broke up two years out of the years *we had a child by someone else.however we got back together and had 3 children together but its been hard.I infidelity,lies,financial hardships and all but we have made it through that however im tired of bei g just a girlfriend.and recently his family member is getting married yet he is going alone.I feel like he is afraid of marriage being that his friend has been divorced twice but he wouldnt be happy if I decided to leave.what do I do?

 

“O teach me how I should forget to think.”

 

― William Shakespeare, Romeo and Juliet.

 

 

*I don't understand this.

 

Who had the child? Him and somebody else, or you and somebody else?

[basil67]

You've talked about the hard things you've been though, but you haven't said anything about how your relationship looks now. Are there still problems or it is all plain sailing now?