Stupendoes Posted March 19, 2016 Posted March 19, 2016 Okay, so I work at a company and my position requires me to move to different locations each day. Last week I met a girl at one of the locations and really started to like her. The whole day she blew off other people to come talk to me and she really seemed interested in me to the point where the manager had to tell us to quit flirting. I was scheduled to be at the same store the next day, and when I told her her eyes lit up and she got really excited and then we realized we were at different times so she promised to come visit me. My friend, who is a girl, told me that I'm too nice and that I need to start acting like I don't care about girls so I took her advice and I just bye and that I'd see her the next day kind of in the middle of a conversation with her before I was about to leave. The next day she never came and saw me, so I went to her location this week to see her and when I saw her we laughed for a little but then the store's phone rang and she immediately bolted to it in the middle of our conversation and didn't say a word to me, so I took it as my cue to leave. I'm considering going back up there tonight, she'll be up there for 5 more hours, and just being honest and asking her out on a date. Do you think she'll be interested or was her dismissal to grab the phone a pretty clear indication that she's not interested. And no she doesn't have a boyfriend I found that out last week. 1
Ferret Posted March 19, 2016 Posted March 19, 2016 Okay, so I work at a company and my position requires me to move to different locations each day. Last week I met a girl at one of the locations and really started to like her. The whole day she blew off other people to come talk to me and she really seemed interested in me to the point where the manager had to tell us to quit flirting. I was scheduled to be at the same store the next day, and when I told her her eyes lit up and she got really excited and then we realized we were at different times so she promised to come visit me. My friend, who is a girl, told me that I'm too nice and that I need to start acting like I don't care about girls so I took her advice and I just bye and that I'd see her the next day kind of in the middle of a conversation with her before I was about to leave. The next day she never came and saw me, so I went to her location this week to see her and when I saw her we laughed for a little but then the store's phone rang and she immediately bolted to it in the middle of our conversation and didn't say a word to me, so I took it as my cue to leave. I'm considering going back up there tonight, she'll be up there for 5 more hours, and just being honest and asking her out on a date. Do you think she'll be interested or was her dismissal to grab the phone a pretty clear indication that she's not interested. And no she doesn't have a boyfriend I found that out last week. Yeah my gut tells me your "female friend" has other motives she ether likes you herself or shes salty on relationships all together I wouldn't be asking her to much more "dating advice"..far as the girl ide keep talking to her when shes free it is work so accept that she has to leave when works calls maybe try to see her outside of work when you can? 1
Author Stupendoes Posted March 19, 2016 Author Posted March 19, 2016 She has a boyfriend so I figured it was safe to follow her advice. Oh well, no use crying over spilled milk. I'm just going to go up there and ask her on a date, I think. No use fretting endlessly about it. 2
Ferret Posted March 19, 2016 Posted March 19, 2016 She has a boyfriend so I figured it was safe to follow her advice. Oh well, no use crying over spilled milk. I'm just going to go up there and ask her on a date, I think. No use fretting endlessly about it. Thats not always a safety net these days a lot seam to "shop around" when in relationships..or if they are having issues project them onto others some times knowing some times not..eater way yeah I say go for it Good luck.. 1
ff12343 Posted March 19, 2016 Posted March 19, 2016 I was in a similar position just yesterday. Was flirting with a gorgeous girl and she let me even get her # and drive her home. Found out she has a bf AND loves her ex. So..maybe this girl has some sort of attachment to some previous bf she is not over yet. Could be anything but I would definitely ask her out on a date. Make sure she knows it's a date. You will have your answer right then and there. Don't be in denial if she gives you excuses. Good luck. 1
Satu Posted March 19, 2016 Posted March 19, 2016 Find someone better to take advice from. And yes, you should ask her out. 1
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