aec90 Posted March 19, 2016 Posted March 19, 2016 I’ve been kind of MIA on this guy that I’m interested in and he’s clearly shown in interest so he became a little distant. I apologized and explained what’s been going on on my end and said I would still like to see him. He said he understood and said what about this weekend (seeing him).I said this weekend is good. He contacts me again on wednesday asking how my week is going and today he wants to know what I’m doing this weekend? Is he blowing me off? I already said this weekend worked for me…
WonderWoman911 Posted March 20, 2016 Posted March 20, 2016 I don't think he's blowing you off since he asked you again. Maybe he just forgot that you said this weekend was okay for you.
NinjaX Posted March 20, 2016 Posted March 20, 2016 Wait, he didnt ask you out yet? Make definite plans. He's probing to see if you are open to getting together, but it sounds like he's not committing.
Author aec90 Posted March 20, 2016 Author Posted March 20, 2016 Wait, he didnt ask you out yet? Make definite plans. He's probing to see if you are open to getting together, but it sounds like he's not committing. I think he's just being cautious or is either shy. He said something again last night bit again he seemed passive aggressive. He wanted to see if I was out and about. He finally actually came out and asked me today though.
NinjaX Posted March 20, 2016 Posted March 20, 2016 He finally actually came out and asked me today though. I want to get this clear...so he asked you out on a definite date? If so, then it's fine. If he didn't, then you can consider being a bit more forward with "Would you like to get together?"
Author aec90 Posted March 20, 2016 Author Posted March 20, 2016 I want to get this clear...so he asked you out on a definite date? If so, then it's fine. If he didn't, then you can consider being a bit more forward with "Would you like to get together?" Yes he did. He asked again if I was free because he wanted to see me then we went from there to plan.
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