biggles6087 Posted March 19, 2016 Posted March 19, 2016 Hey lady's and gents well it is the Biggs popping along to say hi, well here is the problem I have been chatting to this sexy lady on pof anyway we got on great after a few messages added each other to Facebook swapped numbers. We text nearly everyday and have a good laugh and the fun is brilliant we flirt a lot but around valentines day she stuck me in yes that horrible place the da da da THE FRIEND ZONE!!, I was like hey cool no probs thinking to myself that I break the force field but it's now couple of weeks and still in in the NO GO FRIEND ZONE AREA, I'm not been needy or been pushy she admitted to me that her three sisters think I'm great I have not even met them yet so I think she been chatting to them about me,or enjoying what write on the ould book face anyway,I really like this girl and want to move to the next level but I don't want to ruin the friendship that we have any advice on this please.
GTR King Posted March 19, 2016 Posted March 19, 2016 Friend zone= Not interested. She only messaging you to be friendly. Just keep your cool for now and she knows u like her
fitnessfan365 Posted March 19, 2016 Posted March 19, 2016 Let's be honest. You obviously have no desire to be just friends and are simply hanging on hoping she changes her mind. But this isn't the movies or some lame teen TV drama where the friend eventually gets the girl. In real life, it means she has no interest in you whatsoever. So for what it's worth, my advice is to text her this- "I'm way too attracted to ever be just friends with you. Call me if you change your mind, and in the meantime I'll keep my distance meeting other women." That way you're not acting like a pathetic puppy hanging around for any type of attention. 3
SSM3 Posted March 19, 2016 Posted March 19, 2016 I really like this girl and want to move to the next level but I don't want to ruin the friendship that we have any advice on this please. Mate, man up. You don't even know the girl and you have no intentions of being just friends, do you? If she has friend zoned you move on to someone else, because she will or already has! Just saying pal. 2
LookAtThisPOst Posted March 19, 2016 Posted March 19, 2016 We text nearly everyday From what I understand, this kills the romance aspect of it. I don't want to ruin the friendship that we have any advice on this please. No advice, because there's nothing to ruin. Either you date her and if it isn't mutual, move on to someone who will date you, and not think of you as only a friend. If not, you'll eventually reach a saturation point of female friends until you decide to tell the ladies, "Sorry, I have enough (female) friends." 2
Jabron1 Posted March 19, 2016 Posted March 19, 2016 "Sorry, I have enough (female) friends." My typical response. Or I say 'If that's what you really want, then I'll have to leave. I won't be angry or anything, but I don't want to be friends.' The friendzone is to men what the bootycall is to women. Have the self-esteem to say 'no thanks' and walk away.
smackie9 Posted March 19, 2016 Posted March 19, 2016 TIP: That is what OLD should be for....dating. You like the girl simply ask her out....that is how you get to know someone, through dates, not through texting. Otherwise you are just wasting your time. 1
Imajerk17 Posted March 19, 2016 Posted March 19, 2016 The problem as I see it is that instead of proposing that the two of you actually meet up in person, you instead decided to be her texting and Facebook buddy entertaining her w funny messages instead. You put *yourself* in the Friendzone. 1
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