badblood Posted March 18, 2016 Posted March 18, 2016 My ex boyfriend and I broke up in early January after dating for nine months. Our work schedules are completely opposite and the timing just never seemed right. We made it work though. We FaceTimed for hours on end at night and text all day, everyday. Our breakup was very emotional. He told me he thought he would marry me, we just had to find our way back to each other at the right time. Fast forward a few months. He received a promotion and now our schedules work out perfectly. Unfortunately, about six days after we broke up, he was tagged in photos with an old college "friend." Then more pictures started popping up, making it appear the two were dating. Neither have any pictures with the other on any social media. (I've stalked. Not happy to admit that.) So Monday he text me. After two months of no contact. Literally none. Told me he misses me and that he's really been struggling without me. We talked all day long and we haven't stopped since. He knew I was in a bad mood earlier (just by the way I was texting) and told me to tell him why. I explained I was having a bad day, and he immediately sent me back a video that he knew I would think was funny and put a smile on my face. I'm working until midnight and he told me to make sure I got home safely. I've been scared to ask him what the deal is, because I'm afraid of what his answer might be. But does it sound like he wants to come back and try again? 1
PegNosePete Posted March 18, 2016 Posted March 18, 2016 I've been scared to ask him what the deal is, because I'm afraid of what his answer might be. But does it sound like he wants to come back and try again? There's no way we can know. You'll have to just stump up the courage and ask him. The answer will either be yes (in which case cool) or no (in which case you're exactly where you are now). You lose nothing either way. 2
Jayyy Posted March 19, 2016 Posted March 19, 2016 i personally think he's testing the waters and has some level of interest in you. seems that you'll never know unless you ask. don't do it right away though, give him some time. have a few more conversations just so you can know for sure. but you definitely need to ask. 1
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