Author coreydillon Posted March 18, 2016 Author Posted March 18, 2016 And you let YOUR son meet some crazy girl you've been on 1 date with?! You both sound insane. Yes I did. We played outside most of the day. I haven't had any women around my son for two years at this point. 1
Toodaloo Posted March 18, 2016 Posted March 18, 2016 ^ That lot doesn't tell you she's trying hard through words and actions. It tells you she's one chicken short of a bargain bucket. Hey! Thats just insulting... to bargain buckets... 1
Gaeta Posted March 18, 2016 Posted March 18, 2016 Told me she is going on the pill for me. Told me I can bring home another girl too. (Her suggestion). Really, you see this as a sign a woman is relationship and step-mother material? How many times you saw this woman ? You don't think anyone wanting to move in with a stranger, at the drop of a hat, is kind of a red flag? 1
Author coreydillon Posted March 18, 2016 Author Posted March 18, 2016 Really, you see this as a sign a woman is relationship and step-mother material? How many times you saw this woman ? You don't think anyone wanting to move in with a stranger, at the drop of a hat, is kind of a red flag? Yes. It's unique. However if her story adds up it would make sense as to why. I have seen so many odd things with other people specifically that going by the book actually seems more rare. But yes. I will wait a couple days and see. I am just human. After a couple years of dating if a beautiful is on my page and wants to cook, take care of me, work, contribute, share a bed I do like the idea even if it is a red flag.
Gaeta Posted March 18, 2016 Posted March 18, 2016 You should watch more Investigation Discovery channel. Your behavior is dangerous for yourself and your child. * woman moved in after a couple of weeks, man was found in a puddle of his own blood, we still have not located the woman* * woman moved in after a couple of weeks, man woke up with his bank account emptied, car gone, his Identity stolen, we still have not located the woman* * woman moved in after a couple of weeks, man woke up child was no longer in his bed, we still have not located the woman* I am sure you see my point.... 2
Author coreydillon Posted March 18, 2016 Author Posted March 18, 2016 This was one of her lasts texts. I know I'm not like your gf or anything but I like you and whatever we are doing .. Let's keep doing it! but I'm probably not going to be on my phone a lot obviously to give all my attention to my son but he will be around and I just don't want to deal with anything With him while I'm there.. Soo I just wanted to tell you this now just in case I take a long time to respond. I just don't want you to think that I'm ignoring or blowing you off. I replied I like you too and no problem text me when you are coming back she replied. I like talking to you and will miss not talking to you while I'm Gone I just didn't want you to think I caught ghost on you or was flaking out on you
Gaeta Posted March 18, 2016 Posted March 18, 2016 I am just human. After a couple years of dating if a beautiful is on my page and wants to cook, take care of me, work, contribute, share a bed I do like the idea even if it is a red flag. No, very poor excuse. You cannot afford to just being human, you are a father, you have duty to be logic, safe and use common sense !! 2
Toodaloo Posted March 18, 2016 Posted March 18, 2016 I am just human. After a couple years of dating if a beautiful is on my page and wants to cook, take care of me, work, contribute, share a bed I do like the idea even if it is a red flag. But Corey... she also wants to rob you blind, break your heart, use you, abuse you and make your life a living hell and YOU DON'T EVEN KNOW HER YET! A pretty face is NOT all that and also gets old, fat and wrinkled very quickly!! Her ex husband has run off with their child... I have a feeling you may end up doing the same shortly. Please for the love of small farm yard animals - use your brains instead of your balls. 3
clia Posted March 18, 2016 Posted March 18, 2016 Why are you discussing moving in together with a woman you just met? How long have you been talking to her? How many dates have you been on? This entire situation sounds nuts. 4
Author coreydillon Posted March 18, 2016 Author Posted March 18, 2016 You should watch more Investigation Discovery channel. Your behavior is dangerous for yourself and your child. * woman moved in after a couple of weeks, man was found in a puddle of his own blood, we still have not located the woman* * woman moved in after a couple of weeks, man woke up with his bank account emptied, car gone, his Identity stolen, we still have not located the woman* * woman moved in after a couple of weeks, man woke up child was no longer in his bed, we still have not located the woman* I am sure you see my point.... I see what you are saying but how do women date? Men are more aggressive and can easily kill a woman in her sleep after a couple of dates when people are usually alone together. You might be right. I was looking at it more like a woman who's father just died while ending a marriage so she doesn't like the idea of being totally alone.
Gaeta Posted March 18, 2016 Posted March 18, 2016 I see what you are saying but how do women date? Normal and balanced women go on 2-3-4 dates to get a feel of the man than she invites him to her home for dinner and see how he handles himself in private. She may sleep with him or not. Not relevant. The relationship goes on and they learn about each other by dating and spending time together. Before even thinking of moving in with a man a woman will want to verify what kind of man you are, how you treat her, how you treat people around you, if you are honest, patient, helpful and stable. Are you compatible, do you have same moral values, do you have a same relationship goal, etc. Who moves in with a stranger especially with children involved ? you know nothing of this woman! She could be a con artist, she could still be married, she could be a drug addict, name it. I can't believe I have to explain what is just common sense to most people. 3
Gaeta Posted March 18, 2016 Posted March 18, 2016 You might be right. I was looking at it more like a woman who's father just died while ending a marriage so she doesn't like the idea of being totally alone. Is that what you want ? you want a woman to move in with you because she doesn't want to be lonely? You're ok to be used as a band-aid ? something to fill a temporary void? Don't you want a woman to move in with you because she got to know you, she is in love with you and wants to share her life with you because of YOU and who you are, and not because you are convenient.
insert_name Posted March 18, 2016 Posted March 18, 2016 I totally missed that about the threesome first time round. Wow, what a character she is. I'd move house while she is gone OP. Just in case.
truth_seeker Posted March 18, 2016 Posted March 18, 2016 She is unstable, crazy, a liar and a con artist. What do you think you should do?
PegNosePete Posted March 18, 2016 Posted March 18, 2016 Men are more aggressive and can easily kill a woman in her sleep Umm. When someone is asleep they can quite easily be killed by anyone of either gender. If women are too weak to commit crimes they may have brothers, fathers, husbands who can help. Wait for you to fall asleep then call the husband to do you in and rob your place. From every cheesy horror movie, a "weak and helpless" woman fixing her car, first guy to stop gets jumped by her friend who is waiting behind a bush. Or the prostitute who lures a guy into an alley where her pimp does him in. Just because someone is weak doesn't mean they can't commit crime against you. Open your eyes!!
truth_seeker Posted March 18, 2016 Posted March 18, 2016 Normal and balanced women go on 2-3-4 dates to get a feel of the man than she invites him to her home for dinner and see how he handles himself in private. She may sleep with him or not. Not relevant. The relationship goes on and they learn about each other by dating and spending time together. Before even thinking of moving in with a man a woman will want to verify what kind of man you are, how you treat her, how you treat people around you, if you are honest, patient, helpful and stable. Are you compatible, do you have same moral values, do you have a same relationship goal, etc. Who moves in with a stranger especially with children involved ? you know nothing of this woman! She could be a con artist, she could still be married, she could be a drug addict, name it. I can't believe I have to explain what is just common sense to most people. This woman sounds flat out nuts. I would be scared and disappear from her. Why in the hell would you bring your kid to her house to meet her mother when you don't know these people? 1
Author coreydillon Posted March 18, 2016 Author Posted March 18, 2016 Normal and balanced women go on 2-3-4 dates to get a feel of the man than she invites him to her home for dinner and see how he handles himself in private. She may sleep with him or not. Not relevant. The relationship goes on and they learn about each other by dating and spending time together. Before even thinking of moving in with a man a woman will want to verify what kind of man you are, how you treat her, how you treat people around you, if you are honest, patient, helpful and stable. Are you compatible, do you have same moral values, do you have a same relationship goal, etc. Who moves in with a stranger especially with children involved ? you know nothing of this woman! She could be a con artist, she could still be married, she could be a drug addict, name it. I can't believe I have to explain what is just common sense to most people. So if a woman is having sex with you or sleeping over, for the purposes of this thread, before a certain amount of dates, she is not normal and balanced? Because usually that would be a mysogynist thing to say.
Toodaloo Posted March 18, 2016 Posted March 18, 2016 I see what you are saying but how do women date? Men are more aggressive and can easily kill a woman in her sleep after a couple of dates when people are usually alone together. You might be right. I was looking at it more like a woman who's father just died while ending a marriage so she doesn't like the idea of being totally alone. Oh so its not just a hole to poke a penis into... *a flesh light would be cheaper but I digress* You want to play white knight! Gotcha. Sign up for re-enactment groups instead. Again cheaper, more fun and you are more likely to meet someone sane. As for not being scared because she is a woman... In the UK 1 in 3 domestic abuse cases is against a male victim NOT female. Its also WORSE for males as it is not as recognised and also the support systems are just not in place for men the same way they are for women. You have a child. You have a duty to that child to keep yourself safe and secure, physically, mentally, financially... Do not risk it for a piece of pretty ass who knows how to push your buttons. 1
Author coreydillon Posted March 18, 2016 Author Posted March 18, 2016 Umm. When someone is asleep they can quite easily be killed by anyone of either gender. If women are too weak to commit crimes they may have brothers, fathers, husbands who can help. Wait for you to fall asleep then call the husband to do you in and rob your place. From every cheesy horror movie, a "weak and helpless" woman fixing her car, first guy to stop gets jumped by her friend who is waiting behind a bush. Or the prostitute who lures a guy into an alley where her pimp does him in. Just because someone is weak doesn't mean they can't commit crime against you. Open your eyes!! So anytime you are alone with a date they could kill you. Either sex. I agree. Once again, as I understand it, she moved back home to settle her dads estate, will move out of that home in 2 months, has been trying to find a regular roomate, can't, met me and it would be great IF she is normal. Or yes. She might be a serial killer tying to get into my bank account.
PegNosePete Posted March 18, 2016 Posted March 18, 2016 So if a woman is having sex with you or sleeping over, for the purposes of this thread, before a certain amount of dates, she is not normal and balanced? Stop making strawman arguments. Nobody has said that. A woman who tells you she'll go on the pill for you, will arrange threesomes, wants to pay half your bills, left stuff at your house, hasn't seen her kid in years, got her kid taken away, etc. And telling you all these things so soon after meeting? She is certifiably nuts. If you have any sense you'll steer well clear of her. 6
Toodaloo Posted March 18, 2016 Posted March 18, 2016 So if a woman is having sex with you or sleeping over, for the purposes of this thread, before a certain amount of dates, she is not normal and balanced? Because usually that would be a mysogynist thing to say. Its the way in which she is going about it that is the worry... You are trying to defend her but really... you need to be scared and walk away. Its normal to have safe sex with someone, enjoy their company then a few days/ a week later do the same. It is not normal to have a whole bucket of drama going on in which one requires rescuing and rushing to offer to move in and cook for someone... Nope - that is just weird. I have yet to see anyone slate this woman because she had sex with you. I do notice everyone slating her for other perfectly reasonable reasons that you just refuse to pay attention to because she is pretty and willing to have sex with you... 1
Gaeta Posted March 18, 2016 Posted March 18, 2016 So if a woman is having sex with you or sleeping over, for the purposes of this thread, before a certain amount of dates, she is not normal and balanced? Because usually that would be a mysogynist thing to say. The debate is not about sleeping together or sleeping over. This thread is about her moving in with you after only seeing her, what? 2 times?
Author coreydillon Posted March 18, 2016 Author Posted March 18, 2016 Stop making strawman arguments. Nobody has said that. A woman who tells you she'll go on the pill for you, will arrange threesomes, wants to pay half your bills, left stuff at your house, hasn't seen her kid in years, got her kid taken away, etc. And telling you all these things so soon after meeting? She is certifiably nuts. If you have any sense you'll steer well clear of her. She hasn't seen her kid in 5 months. She moved to settle her dads estate and didn't want to take the kid out of school. So she didn't get her kid taken away. It's funny. I mean if this woman posted a thread I bet she would get a ton of sympathy. "My father passed away, husband cheated, I am miserable with him , and met a nice guy who I have a ton in common with. Should I stay with him and see how it goes?"
Gaeta Posted March 18, 2016 Posted March 18, 2016 A woman who tells you she'll go on the pill for you, will arrange threesomes, wants to pay half your bills, left stuff at your house, hasn't seen her kid in years, got her kid taken away, etc. And telling you all these things so soon after meeting? She is certifiably nuts. If you have any sense you'll steer well clear of her. ...and agrees to move in with him after a couple of dates.
Author coreydillon Posted March 18, 2016 Author Posted March 18, 2016 ...and agrees to move in with him after a couple of dates. See each other more with the idea of living together. Not move in all at once.
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