BurnedAndLost Posted March 17, 2016 Posted March 17, 2016 The parents of my s.o exow has asked us to be the best man and maid of honor in their wedding. The first two or so years ofter the affair, i cut off contact with them. But we reconnected and became close to them again. They asked my s.o to talk to me because we are the closest people to them here... The problem? Exow will probably be there. I accepted. They have done so much for us and I do trust them. They are one of the only two people i trust to leave my son with. Thats how close they are. But i am insure of how to deal with the awkwardness that will surely fill the room. I'm not angry with her anymore. In fact I rarely think of her anymore. My s.o gently asked if I would be able to contain myself when I see her (We did not come in to physical contact after dday) and i can... Its almost been 5 years.
Cloudcuckoo Posted March 17, 2016 Posted March 17, 2016 The parents of my s.o exow has asked us to be the best man and maid of honor in their wedding. The first two or so years ofter the affair, i cut off contact with them. But we reconnected and became close to them again. They asked my s.o to talk to me because we are the closest people to them here... The problem? Exow will probably be there. I accepted. They have done so much for us and I do trust them. They are one of the only two people i trust to leave my son with. Thats how close they are. But i am insure of how to deal with the awkwardness that will surely fill the room. I'm not angry with her anymore. In fact I rarely think of her anymore. My s.o gently asked if I would be able to contain myself when I see her (We did not come in to physical contact after dday) and i can... Its almost been 5 years. You will be attending the celebrations of two very good friends sweetie, she won't matter a jot....... You've maintained your dignity and decorum throughout, and there is no reason for you not to when faced with the possibility the other woman will also attend the wedding. She's likely to feel more uncomfortable than you perhaps. YOU didn't do anything remember, so talk to your other half about how best he can support you on this day, and go and celebrate the marriage of your dear friends with your head held high. Try not to worry, you can do this! Cuckoo x 2
HereNorThere Posted March 17, 2016 Posted March 17, 2016 Funny that he asked you "will you be able to contain yourself?" I think you should be wondering if HE can contain himself. I went back and read your backstory and I can't believe you would allow him in the same room with her. You are just asking for them to reconnect. Didn't your previous thread state she recently moved back into your town? I just don't see how this is a good idea, but not because of the awkwardness. There is a deep, deep love between the two of the tham they have been suppressing for a really long time. You're playing a dangerous game putting them in a romantic environment like that. If you do go, it's in and out, no alcohol whatsoever. Not even one drink and never, ever let him leave your side. There's unfinished business between them and it may be something as simple as a glance that reignites their relationship. 1
Author BurnedAndLost Posted March 17, 2016 Author Posted March 17, 2016 Funny that he asked you "will you be able to contain yourself?" I think you should be wondering if HE can contain himself. I went back and read your backstory and I can't believe you would allow him in the same room with her. You are just asking for them to reconnect. Didn't your previous thread state she recently moved back into your town? She did for a few weeks. She went back to her man awhile ago. I just don't see how this is a good idea, but not because of the awkwardness. There is a deep, deep love between the two of the tham they have been suppressing for a really long time. You're playing a dangerous game putting them in a romantic environment like that. This is so off base I don't even know how to respond. Deep love? Lol If you do go, it's in and out, no alcohol whatsoever. Not even one drink and never, ever let him leave your side. There's unfinished business between them and it may be something as simple as a glance that reignites their relationship. We don't drink. She has a child now and does nothing but cheat on her s.o with multiple men. He has proven to me he can be trusted with her thus far. 1
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