helo23 Posted March 16, 2016 Posted March 16, 2016 hello guys ! So we are broken up for nearly six months.. i know i shouldn't feel like this.. so as some of you may know we were insanely in love thought that we were the perfect match and everybody else did and still do but i had a lot of problems and i started the fights because i felt like he was pulling away. But we went through the problems and we were finally back on the good track ! A week later after spending the day because he ditched class to be with me ( because we didnt spend the weekend together ) he was telling me how much he loved me and couldn't imagine his life without me and texted me that as well when he left . Then he kissed another girl at a club , like making out not a stolen kiss .. he admitted to me crying etc etc.. I was in a very bad place because it was my biggest nightmare (my dad cheated on my mom for 20 years so yeah.. issues there ) and he knew that .. he cried a lot and said that he was sorry ( once ) and that we were over .. because after that he didnt how he felt towards me anymore. then two weeks later i learned that he actually hooked up with a friend of ours and lied because he swore he didnt know when he was crying.. Since then he made me live hell as he has the need to be with a lot of girls around me all the time but would pass next to me and touch me (you know what i mean there ..) and he even hooked up with a girl all night when i was there , looking at me in the eyes and making out some more.. the crazy stuff is that he looks bad ( weird beard, a lot of acne that was finally over as i took care of his skin, heavy drinking , party animal and to top it all smocking pot ,cig, and snoozing..) well to be honest with you he looks like a hobo.. and i dont get it.. well anyways, i cut him off my life for a few months now ... but i want him to regret me .. i took care of myself and im pretty happy about how i am and how i look and i want to put it in his face.. make him feel like i felt.. i know its not very ladylike but i need to feel that he regrets.. because the only thing i got was " i want to move on "...
Jim nine three Posted March 21, 2016 Posted March 21, 2016 You did the right thing by cutting him off.These kind of people are toxic and should not be allowed to be in your life. Anyways,about the revenge that you mentioned.As Frank Sinatra said and I quote "the best revenge is massive success".You have got nothing to prove to this person,by the time he will realize what he had you will be looong gone.No need to "show him".This is approval seeking behavior and I don't think you need approval from a jerk who treated you like this.Keep on enjoying your life,making friends and meeting new people,working on yourself and your goals.The rest the universe has already lined up for you.Stay strong
Author helo23 Posted March 24, 2016 Author Posted March 24, 2016 You did the right thing by cutting him off.These kind of people are toxic and should not be allowed to be in your life. Anyways,about the revenge that you mentioned.As Frank Sinatra said and I quote "the best revenge is massive success".You have got nothing to prove to this person,by the time he will realize what he had you will be looong gone.No need to "show him".This is approval seeking behavior and I don't think you need approval from a jerk who treated you like this.Keep on enjoying your life,making friends and meeting new people,working on yourself and your goals.The rest the universe has already lined up for you.Stay strong you re sweet! i know and i dont need validation from him i just want him to feel like he lost the diamond of his life ...
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