Paige33 Posted March 16, 2016 Posted March 16, 2016 I fell for one of my coworkers 9 months ago. The attraction was instant and my feelings have grown for him. The chemistry between us is mind blowing. I have never told him how I feel, he has a gf that he is not happy with (nothing has happened between us). From the very beginning he was very attentive and we flirted a little, he would always stare at me and sit close to me when he had a chance. There is definitely a connection.We chat over IM occassionaly and I have since left the company. He has been to my house a few times to help with DIY stuff but he never made a move. I decided that I have to somehow let him know that there is more than friendship feelings from my side and sent him a IM saying that I had a naughty dream about him, he replied with LOL. I then said that it was very intense but nice and have not heard anything back from him since. I actually am very in love with him, not just lust. I know that he is in the process of breaking up with his girlfriend. I dont know if he was to scared to tell me if he felt something for me as well. What should I do?
Popsicle Posted March 16, 2016 Posted March 16, 2016 He's not interested. Telling someone that you had a naughty dream about them is the oldest method in the book to break the ice and tell someone you like them without saying those three words. Every human being on the planet who would potentially like you would respond to that. But he didn't. And he didn't because he isn't interested. Take the hint and move on. 1
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