Kaotic Dizaster Posted June 14, 2005 Posted June 14, 2005 Ok I posted on here about that guy I met recently and we went on that date Saturday night .... Well when we went our seperate ways that night he asked who should call who and I told him he could call me , because I didn't want to feel like I pest .... lol Now I am rethinking that since only because he was the one that made it a point to give me his cell phone number , I mean he has truly made an effort to get my attention , like coming into the place I work twice a night for 2 nights and made it a point to introduce himself to me . He even offered to make me breakfat the second night because I was starving , and he did make it and didn't expect anything in return and then took me out to dinner ... now my question is should I wait an see if he calls , I mean it has only been 3 days or should I call him just to touch base ?? I am just completely confused on this dating thing .. I am so not in practice .... All help is so needed !! Thanx !
gwennebe Posted June 14, 2005 Posted June 14, 2005 I would let him call you. That's just my opionion. I don't see any reason why he won't or shouldn't.?
scared shy Posted June 14, 2005 Posted June 14, 2005 I would give him another day or 2, and then call him, why the heck not? I mean if he made you breakfast and took you out to dinner and made a point to give you his #, then he obviously wants you to call, right? Then again what do I know, I am a moron when it comes to the opposite sex and taking control of the situation...
crazy_grl Posted June 14, 2005 Posted June 14, 2005 By telling him to call you, you may have made him feel like you're not really interested. If you gave him signals that you are interested on the date, he'll probably call. Don't call him yet, because you did tell him to call you. 3 days isn't that long of a time. Give him a chance to call you. If he doesn't call after a couple more days, go ahead and call him, because he probably thinks you're not interested.
Author Kaotic Dizaster Posted June 15, 2005 Author Posted June 15, 2005 Well I didn't have to wait for him to call ... he came into my work tonight . I was a bit confused for a sec because he came in with a girl ... you know I was thinkin WTF!! But it was his sister , and I know for sure it was , and he was very quick to make sure I knew this ... lol He said the reason he came in was to get something to eat but I need to explain where he lives is probably 25 minutes from where I work and where I work is in BFE ...lol I am thinking that maybe I did make him think I wasn't interested for a sec but I am sure he could tell by the smile on my face that I am . I also think he brought his sister in to give her opinion about me .. which is fine with me , as long as its all good ...lol I know I will probably not see him this weekend or hear from him cuz he has his son and I work all weekend , but thats ok since he made it a point for me to know . But thanx for all the inpuuuut and I will keep ya updated !!
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