Vero Posted March 16, 2016 Posted March 16, 2016 My neighbor gave me two free 9th row tickets to my local basketball game, but I had no one to go with, so I invited this girl I liked. The game went great and everything. When it ended, she drove me home and I went inside to pick up some cash to pay her back for the parking at the game. I came back outside and she was waiting in her car for me. I went to give her the money through her car door window, but it was half-way open, so I hesitated and didn't kiss her. I feel absolutely horrible right now and I don't know what to do. I feel like punching my past self in the face. The chance was there, but I hesitated because I was waiting for her to approve of me kissing her. She drove off. The next second I instantly regretted it. Now, spring break is about to start and she's going away on a trip for the whole break this friday. What do I do? Thanks in Advance.
losangelena Posted March 16, 2016 Posted March 16, 2016 First off, don't beat yourself up. I had a first date once where, on date two, the guy said he really wanted to kiss me at the end of date one, but didn't. He felt much worse about it than I did. If the woman you went with likes you at all, I doubt she'll lose your number over the fact that you didn't kiss her. Definitely make contact with her, even if you can't see her before she leaves. Try and plan a date for when she's back. And don't make too much of a fuss about it; you'll most likely get a second chance. 3
road Posted March 16, 2016 Posted March 16, 2016 You were lip blocked. That's why she had the window half way up. Also what is with this crap I left my money home when going out on a date? What if she wanted to stop at a diner on the way home. Or stop for a drink, ice cream, whatever. Logistics man logistics. Until you can figure out logistics you better not date. Making her pay for the parking on a date you ask her out is a self c@#k block. Then instead of being able to say how much you enjoyed her company and move in for a kiss, you had to jump out of the car to get the money that you should of had on you. Thus greatly reducing the chance of getting a kiss. Also not very manly letting the women pick you up in her car. By doing that you removed the opportunity of walking her to her door for the good night kiss. Come on basis Dating 100. 2
Author Vero Posted March 16, 2016 Author Posted March 16, 2016 (edited) You were lip blocked. That's why she had the window half way up. I feel as though this is a long shot. Also what is with this crap I left my money home when going out on a date? What if she wanted to stop at a diner on the way home. Or stop for a drink, ice cream, whatever. Logistics man logistics. Until you can figure out logistics you better not date. Making her pay for the parking on a date you ask her out is a self c@#k block. My neighbor gave me the tickets for the game 2 hours before the game. I had no car and no money at the time. keep in mind that I am a senior in high school and occasionally lack access to a car and money, especially on such a time crunch before the game. Then instead of being able to say how much you enjoyed her company and move in for a kiss, you had to jump out of the car to get the money that you should of had on you. Thus greatly reducing the chance of getting a kiss. Also not very manly letting the women pick you up in her car. By doing that you removed the opportunity of walking her to her door for the good night kiss. Come on basis Dating 100. This is mostly true. Was kinda disappointed I could get my car. Edited March 16, 2016 by Vero
fitnessfan365 Posted March 16, 2016 Posted March 16, 2016 To be honest OP, a first kiss through a window half way up isn't great to begin with. So it's better you held off anyways. But you came off looking pretty bad here. She had to drive and pay for parking on a date you invited her on. Maybe it's because I'm kind of an old fashioned guy, but I believe that women appreciate logistics and a bit of effort on dates. Especially first ones. Now I get that you're in high school and don't have access to a car full time. But at the very least, borrow your folks' car. Secondly, you had the money to pay for parking. So why would you leave it back at your house, make her pay, and then "pay her back" at your house? You should have just taken it with you and paid for it at the game. However, at the very least you can use this as a learning experience on how to get better with date planning in the future.
BronzeAgeJaeger217 Posted March 16, 2016 Posted March 16, 2016 Yup, women are the passive sex, on the waiting end of life, something I detest about them
losangelena Posted March 16, 2016 Posted March 16, 2016 Guys, he said he had two-hour's notice. C'mon. As a woman, I don't see how any of this is so awful. If I liked OP, I would see him again. Nothing he did or didn't do on their date would have made me say, "hell, no."
spriggan2 Posted March 16, 2016 Posted March 16, 2016 The fact that you're making your courtship bones this early is quite promising. You'll be a total player in no time. Just don't get discouraged, have fun and don't get too distracted from your studies!
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