Bobbi7 Posted March 15, 2016 Posted March 15, 2016 Meaning, that he has a girlfriend that he's committed to and they live together, but both of them are free to date/sleep with other people as long as they tell each other about it. And his girlfriend also likes girls. Would this guy be looking for a threesome even if he denied it? Or maybe he's looking for a girl for his girl.
SmartDude Posted March 15, 2016 Posted March 15, 2016 It gives your lady something to do so she will stop bugging you. Then you can work on important projects you have put off for awhile. 1
bluefeather Posted March 15, 2016 Posted March 15, 2016 If she's into girls it could open the possibility for threesomes, so if a guy is into that, he could go for it. When I was offered that, I told her I'd be down for it, but might develop feelings for the other girl too. She didn't want me to do that so she pulled the plug. Every guy is different though, and will have their own reasons, same as girls.
brokengirl85 Posted March 15, 2016 Posted March 15, 2016 Is this a generalized question or it's something that pertains to you? Because we don't know why is he acting the way he does. You'll never know, unless you ask him.
HereNorThere Posted March 15, 2016 Posted March 15, 2016 It sounds like you need to do more research on polyamory. A lot of poly people I know have fully independent relationships outside of their spouse. The truth is that she could find a "threesome" partner for them long before he could, so I really doubt that's the case. Not saying they wouldn't do it, but I doubt it's his primary motivator. Poly people have multiple relationships at one time. There really isn't a whole lot more to it. If you aren't poly, you probably wouldn't understand. The fact that he was honest about it actually says a lot about his character. However, I don't swing that way, so it's hard for me to see their viewpoints.
neowulf Posted March 16, 2016 Posted March 16, 2016 Meaning, that he has a girlfriend that he's committed to and they live together, but both of them are free to date/sleep with other people as long as they tell each other about it. And his girlfriend also likes girls. Would this guy be looking for a threesome even if he denied it? Or maybe he's looking for a girl for his girl. There's only one way to really know. Talk with them. As a couple. No point guessing at what's in people's heads.
strawberryshortstack Posted March 16, 2016 Posted March 16, 2016 Meaning, that he has a girlfriend that he's committed to and they live together, but both of them are free to date/sleep with other people as long as they tell each other about it. And his girlfriend also likes girls. Would this guy be looking for a threesome even if he denied it? Or maybe he's looking for a girl for his girl. Sometimes, people love each other, and value the relationship enough to stay together, but recognize that they may not fully satisfy the other sexually. The reasons and dynamic differ for everyone - relationships are never "one size fits all". 1
elaine567 Posted March 16, 2016 Posted March 16, 2016 Meaning, that he has a girlfriend that he's committed to and they live together, but both of them are free to date/sleep with other people as long as they tell each other about it. And his girlfriend also likes girls. Would this guy be looking for a threesome even if he denied it? Or maybe he's looking for a girl for his girl. Open relationships vary, some will only sleep with one other person, some sleep with many different people, some are pretty vanilla in their tastes others are "wild". Some will indulge in 3somes, some will never want a 3some. It all depends on the couple and why they have opened up their marriage/relationship in the first place. No assumptions can be made here, as everyone is different.
DominicWayne Posted March 16, 2016 Posted March 16, 2016 People go through life looking for what they want. Relationships included. Some want to have open relationships like Hugh Hefner and enjoy a life filled with women/men, some want to be with only one partner. That's just people's preferences. I don't judge it and neither should anyone. It's their choice, nobody else's. If both partners agree to their open sexual traits, then more power to them.
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