Paige33 Posted March 15, 2016 Posted March 15, 2016 I fell for one of my coworkers 9 months ago. The attraction was instant and my feelings have grown for him. The chemistry between us is mind blowing. I have never told him how I feel, he has a gf that he is not happy with (nothing has happened between us). From the very beginning he was very attentive and we flirted a little, he would always stare at me and sit close to me when he had a chance. There is definitely a connection.We chat over IM occassionaly and I have since left the company. He has been to my house a few times to help with DIY stuff but he never made a move. I decided that I have to somehow let him know that there is more than friendship feelings from my side and sent him a IM saying that I had a naughty dream about him, he replied with LOL. I then said that it was very intense but nice and have not heard anything back from him since. I actually am very in love with him, not just lust. I know that he is in the process of breaking up with his girlfriend. I dont know if he was to scared to tell me if he felt something for me as well. What should I do?
powerisperfected Posted March 15, 2016 Posted March 15, 2016 It sounds as if you really do have some strong feelings for this man. However, he is in a very difficult position right now and may be very confused about his feelings. If he is in the process of ending a relationship he may not be ready to jump into another serious relationship. You have to consider that there are a lot of variables that can come into play in a situation like yours. Under the circumstances, probably the best thing that you can do is try to continue to be a friend to this man and let him make the next move. If you were to be aggressive and push him you might scare him off as both a boyfriend and a friend. 1
whichwayisup Posted March 16, 2016 Posted March 16, 2016 Time will tell if he is actually breaking up with his gf or if he is just telling you that and enjoying the fact that you dig him. Many guys will selfishly lead a woman on, give them a bit of hope so they can get their egos fed all the meanwhile they have no intention of taking things further. Mind your heart and don't be so flirty and open with him. He hasn't broken up with her and he's still in a relationship.
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