Should I tolerate this ?

[Jord11]

My sister asked me to watch her dog for 2 days I currently live with my gf I asked her if it would be alright for the dog to come over she's a lab beautiful dog my gf said she doesn't like big dogs so now I have to go to my sisters and stay there, when I had my place I let my gf's dog to stay over no problem and the thing is she wants to get a small dog! And I have no say because it's her place and I'm just renting, she also said if I want to watch the family dog to get your own apartment and slammed the bathroom door on me

[Tahirthegreat]

Her house her rules. But I wouldnt stay with someone that rude. SHe could of been a little nicer.

[smackie9]

She has every right to refuse, it's her place. I can see if she is worried about the hardwood floors getting scratched or if she was allergic, but if it's just because she doesn't like the size of dog...you should step back for a min. Your GF isn't willing to make a small compromise....this should be a warning for more of this in the future about other things that will come up. I suggest a simple discussion with her about making compromises and your expectations. If she is going to act like a total cow about it, I suggest you find yourself a less selfish GF.

[Michelle ma Belle]

Her house her rules. But I wouldnt stay with someone that rude. SHe could of been a little nicer.

 

I second this BIG time.

[Gaeta]

Why don't you use that weekend away to move out of your girlfriend's place? sounds like a good idea to me. What man wants to live with such a selfish drama queen and on top of that very soon your drama queen will have an ugly little yappy rat in her purse she'll call a dog. Your life will evolve around a nagging selfish girlfriend and a barking rat. I don't know, it just sounds better to just move out.

[kendahke]

, when I had my place I let my gf's dog to stay over no problem

 

I agree with Gaeta.

 

It's time to move out and get your own place. She can keep her family's dog while staying with you, but you can't while staying with her? Yeah, if you stay with her, get ready for years of this selfish BS. I wouldn't be bothered.

[d0nnivain]

I can see why somebody who doesn't like big dogs would not want a lab in their home. If this ended there, I wold support your GF. As somebody else said, her house, her rules.

 

That is not the point though. For her to slam the door in your face & not even discuss a compromise, that is problematic. I could not stay in a relationship with somebody who is so rude & inflexible.

[Zahara]

I agree. Her house, her rules. But she handled it badly. I wouldn't care to be around someone like that, let alone live in their home.

 

Is this the girlfriend that you posted about that has rapid mood swings?

[road]

Let me see

Dog

GF

dog or GF

 

 

Dog wins, paws(hands)down

Put down (dump) the GF

[katiegrl]

Why don't you use that weekend away to move out of your girlfriend's place? sounds like a good idea to me. What man wants to live with such a selfish drama queen and on top of that very soon your drama queen will have an ugly little yappy rat in her purse she'll call a dog. Your life will evolve around a nagging selfish girlfriend and a barking rat. I don't know, it just sounds better to just move out.

 

LOL @ ugly little yappy rat in her purse!!

 

Gaeta you really do come up with some good ones!!

 

Too funny, and so true!

[preraph]

Rudeness aside, I wouldn't stay with someone who only likes small dogs. Dogs aren't toys. You need to find someone warm-hearted. If you can't love dogs, you can't love anything. They're the easiest creatures on earth to love who always love you back.

 

So use this time with that wonderful lab to go on dog walks and meet all the nice women who will come up and fawn over the dog and you.