chesca210 Posted March 14, 2016 Posted March 14, 2016 My ex bf of 3.5 years dumped me 3 weeks ago and a few days ago i asked if we could meet two weeks from now. And he said it would have to be a sunday, then asked what i was doing sunday (today) and when i said i had work he offered me a ride. So today he picked me up, took me to get tea at the place whose tea i love (his idea) , and took me to work. We talked, he seemed skeptical, and after a while of talking at my jobs parking lot, i work at sonic, he wanted ice cream. I went inside and made him some, and he tried to pay ne for it, i threw his money in the back seat and he took my remote to unlock the work door and when i reached in to get it, he kissed me. It felt so deja vu-ish because our first kiss in 2012, i brought him out some ice cream he tried to tip me and i took a kiss as my tip. We worked together. I asked him what the kiss was for and he said that he wanted to. And that was it. Idk when ill see him again, he works two jobs. Idk how to take this. Is it good? He didnt really say much about it.
mrwigand Posted March 14, 2016 Posted March 14, 2016 Honestly, it means he's confused and probably missing you since the breakup, but that doesn't mean you should get back together or even that he wants to get back together. If he left it at that kiss he was probably trying to see if it would lead to something else, if you would initiate more, etc., and if you were the one initiating more he would have gone with it. But if he wasn't doing anything else than that says to me that he doesn't want to get back together, but in the moment he was impulsive. Good luck navigating through that, it sounds confusing and I'm sure it's painful! Stay strong!
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