pisces_gurl Posted March 13, 2016 Posted March 13, 2016 I am a 21 years old girl and considered very beautiful and hot (I am not bragging but it is necessary to tell in this context). Many people call me beautfiul and as per the beauty standards of society, i fit perfectly. Anyway, the problem more psychological than relationship issue. On multiple occasions, in the past 9-10 months, I have faced one thing. Different men, in my college or anywhere, I will feel are attracted to me. They will stare at me a lot or I will catch them looking at me at multiple occasions and from their aura, vibe or tone of voice, i will get a feeling that they're attracted to me. Usually it's the staring and the 'feel'. The problem is that they will hardly (if ever some of them) approach me. And in turn, i will come to know that they are either already married or with someone else etc. These multiple confusions have led me to believe now that maybe I am taking the WRONG signal. Maybe it's all in my HEAD. And they are not attracted to me in the first place. I get infatuated easily. And if I feel attraction (vibe or staring thing) from someone, i get a crush on them quickly and when they don't approach me or take an action, i feel bad. I want to understand and know what psychological cause would be behind that? How can I 'not' feel a vibe from men? Does staring a lot or smiling or a shift in tone of voice indicate something? I basically 'FEEL' the attraction clues through body language and even for the guys I have hardly ever spoken to. But if there was attraction, wouldn't they approach me? Can someone please give an insight into it? Why am I feeling these vibes for CERTAIN men and not everyone? Why if, they are not attracted towards me? And if they are, then why wouldn't they ever approach me? Some were even rude.
d0nnivain Posted March 20, 2016 Posted March 20, 2016 Assuming you are as beautiful as you say, you will attract attention. Just because a man is married or in a relationship, he's not blind or dead. He may notice you & look at you because you are beautiful but he does not approach because he's loyal to someone else. You pick up the vibe because you are an empathetic person (most Pieces are) and you probably find the man attractive, which heightens the sensation. You need to get a handle on your own infatuation. You said it yourself you fall to fast. . . once glimpse is certainly fast. Instead of feeling bad & down, take it for what it is: A compliment, nothing more. Think gee that was a nice little ego boost but don't get all glum. You didn't even speak to the person; you shouldn't feel bad when you have no more info then what he looks like.
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