bigsrve1aj Posted March 13, 2016 Posted March 13, 2016 Been on seeing a lady for a couple of weeks, things have escalated we've kissed, hooked up, and last night we were intimate, unfortunatley, I came too soon, short of sex. The next morning she asked if I was a virgin? The answer is no, but I feel this was a little too forward of a question. I feel bad because of last night. How should I respond, we've only been dating for month. 1
road Posted March 13, 2016 Posted March 13, 2016 Been on seeing a lady for a couple of weeks, things have escalated we've kissed, hooked up, and last night we were intimate, unfortunatley, I came too soon, short of sex. The next morning she asked if I was a virgin? The answer is no, but I feel this was a little too forward of a question. I feel bad because of last night. How should I respond, we've only been dating for month. The truth is always the best response. How did you get away with not answering her when she asked you? What did you say when she asked if your were a virgin? 1
xcupid Posted March 13, 2016 Posted March 13, 2016 Nothing to feel bad about and don't make a big deal about her question. You tell her she excites you.
zenguy Posted March 13, 2016 Posted March 13, 2016 Maybe she was trying to figure out why you guys didn't have sex even after you cummed, and that's the only thing she could think of. I wouldn't get offended.
Lady2163 Posted March 13, 2016 Posted March 13, 2016 Maybe she was trying to figure out why you guys didn't have sex even after you cummed, and that's the only thing she could think of. I wouldn't get offended. He has another thread about this, I think she texted it to him. He's insulted and feels it was too intimate a question. It's okay to have sex, there's no intimacy there, but taking about it? The thing is: the time to talk about experience, likes and dislikes was before you tumbled into bed. You already admit you're not super experienced. Lack of experience is also a lack of knowledge, maturity and confidence. She could have been trying to be funny or just being a smart ass. My suggestion still stands. TALK about sex. Don't do it again unless you can spend some actual time together. I don't know what you're recovery time is, but if you are still quick on the trigger with the second orgasm, chances increase that you may have a problem. My exH could two stroke all night long and only had about a 30 minute recovery time. His problem was that he wasn't very experienced with anything other than his hand. Which he had done a lot of in his lifetime. There are other things you can do than just penis in vagina. If it happens again, I'd suggest using your hands and mouth until you are ready to go again. Just because you came, doesn't mean the party is over. If you treated it like that, then I would probably wonder as well if the man was a virgin as well.
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