Silveresque Posted March 13, 2016 Posted March 13, 2016 (edited) I'm 18 (M) and I've been dating this girl (18/F) for a little over three weeks. It's my first time doing anything like this. I never really got the opportunity before. Last date, a few days ago (which was our third date), we held hands while we walked around and sat down with my arm around her, and concluded with a ~5-second lip kiss. After the date, I playfully suggested that there be a longer kiss next time and she responded by agreeing, adding multiple-heart emoticons. I have two questions: 1. There was no tongue or anything. It was just a classic, brief, romantic lip kiss. Does this count as a "first kiss"? Can and should I tell her that she's my first kiss? 2. How should I go about initiating/setting up for that longer kiss/makeout. I think we're probably going to be going out to eat and going back to her place is off-limits temporarily (for reasons I don't want to get into). I'll be driving her, so we do have a car (which seems like really the only good place to get on with that). But it'd be distasteful to simply ask, "So you want to make out in the backseat of my car?" wouldn't it? I mean I could probably take her for a brief romantic walk again maybe to somewhat ease into it, but the question remains as to how I should initiate this tentative "longer kiss". It should also be noted, that due to our fairly incompatible schedules, this day that I'm going to see her only allows for us to spend a little less than two hours together, so I don't really have the luxury of time either. Just wanted to make note of that. Also, we both have the intent of developing a real relationship, not a hookup, and overall she seems like the "sweet", "nice", and "down-to-earth" girl if that helps. Edited March 13, 2016 by Silveresque
preraph Posted March 14, 2016 Posted March 14, 2016 Don't get in too big a hurry. It will make it awkward. Continue to kiss her goodnight or whatever, but the way to warm a girl up is to snuggle on the couch and that sort of thing. Then kissing. Do that on the dates until that is very comfortable to both of you, and I honestly think things will just naturally progress. Don't talk about it though, because that's awkward and shows fear and fear is unattractive, though we all have it from time to time. Once it feels real natural, that's when to just start deep kissing her. Don't do it while you're both jumpy.
Popsicle Posted March 14, 2016 Posted March 14, 2016 OMG making out in the car is awesome! Definitely do that.
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