Seneya Posted March 13, 2016 Posted March 13, 2016 This is long but please read it! I met a guy few months ago. He wanted to meet me but I refused. We both just got out of relationships and didn't want to date anyone. I refused meeting him because he wanted some sex and I wasn't ready. I told him that we could just talk and be good friends. He would then call and ask about me. We never had anything sexual but he would just tell how he wants to hold me in arms. Then a time came when I started trusting him and got sexually attracted to him. I asked him to have sex chat with me but then he refused telling me our friendship is more valuable than those sexual flirtations. I got a bit disappointed but agreed. Then few days later he messaged me he wants to have some sex chat and so we did. It was really awesome and we kept doing the same almost everyday. One night I asked him jokingly if he would just forget me after we had sex and he said "no baby, you are more than just this for me". I noticed he just doesn't ask me for sex chats, he would be there if I need his help. In fact he is just more affectionate to me. He sends kisses and calls me with his special nickname "kitten". Few nights ago I was completely broken after all the sweet memories with my ex came as a flashback. I cried a lot and thought of talking to my friend. He was busy that night with some work but talked till I felt better. That night he addressed me saying " my baby", "my kitten" etc. He also kept saying how much amazing I am and how much sweet, loving, caring and hot I am. Now all those make me wonder if he really likes me more than just a friend or not. He is damn affectionate to me and also admitted he is not as sweet to other people the way he is to me.
soph-walker Posted March 13, 2016 Posted March 13, 2016 This is long but please read it! I met a guy few months ago. He wanted to meet me but I refused. We both just got out of relationships and didn't want to date anyone. I refused meeting him because he wanted some sex and I wasn't ready. I told him that we could just talk and be good friends. He would then call and ask about me. We never had anything sexual but he would just tell how he wants to hold me in arms. Then a time came when I started trusting him and got sexually attracted to him. I asked him to have sex chat with me but then he refused telling me our friendship is more valuable than those sexual flirtations. I got a bit disappointed but agreed. Then few days later he messaged me he wants to have some sex chat and so we did. It was really awesome and we kept doing the same almost everyday. One night I asked him jokingly if he would just forget me after we had sex and he said "no baby, you are more than just this for me". I noticed he just doesn't ask me for sex chats, he would be there if I need his help. In fact he is just more affectionate to me. He sends kisses and calls me with his special nickname "kitten". Few nights ago I was completely broken after all the sweet memories with my ex came as a flashback. I cried a lot and thought of talking to my friend. He was busy that night with some work but talked till I felt better. That night he addressed me saying " my baby", "my kitten" etc. He also kept saying how much amazing I am and how much sweet, loving, caring and hot I am. Now all those make me wonder if he really likes me more than just a friend or not. He is damn affectionate to me and also admitted he is not as sweet to other people the way he is to me. Am I right in thinking you've not met each other?
Author Seneya Posted March 13, 2016 Author Posted March 13, 2016 Yeah we haven't met. He came to my country for tour and wanted to meet me but I refused. Now he went back to his country. He would come soon
soph-walker Posted March 13, 2016 Posted March 13, 2016 Yeah we haven't met. He came to my country for tour and wanted to meet me but I refused. Now he went back to his country. He would come soon If I were you I wouldn't be wasting your emotion on someone you've not met. You don't even live in the same country, hon, he sounds like a weirdo. 2
Author Seneya Posted March 14, 2016 Author Posted March 14, 2016 If I were you I wouldn't be wasting your emotion on someone you've not met. You don't even live in the same country, hon, he sounds like a weirdo. I know. But I don't have any romantic feelings for him. I'm just confused about his behavior
thai_singles Posted March 14, 2016 Posted March 14, 2016 I think so, after reading you chat I think he likes you and he has feeling for you. Do you like that guy and want to proceed your relationship. 1
angel.eyes Posted March 14, 2016 Posted March 14, 2016 I know. But I don't have any romantic feelings for him. I'm just confused about his behavior Senaya, how old are you? If you aren't interested in him romantically, then why do you care? It doesn't matter. Why on earth would you waste time with him instead of spending your time looking for someone that you could actually date? My goodness, you've never met this guy and you aren't even living in the same country! Why give him any headspace when you aren't even interested? Look. You can waste away your life on sweet talkers and the fantasies they create in your mind. Or you can focus on reality and finding a real relationship with a real man who is actually available and interested in dating you. Your choice. Your life! 2
Author Seneya Posted March 17, 2016 Author Posted March 17, 2016 Senaya, how old are you? If you aren't interested in him romantically, then why do you care? It doesn't matter. Why on earth would you waste time with him instead of spending your time looking for someone that you could actually date? My goodness, you've never met this guy and you aren't even living in the same country! Why give him any headspace when you aren't even interested? Look. You can waste away your life on sweet talkers and the fantasies they create in your mind. Or you can focus on reality and finding a real relationship with a real man who is actually available and interested in dating you. Your choice. Your life! It's complicated and I really don't want people to understand why. I like this guy as a friend. And interested to meet but it wouldn't happen anytime sooner. I just wanted to make sure anything wasn't from his side cause he really has helped me a lot and I don't want to give him any false hope.
Author Seneya Posted March 17, 2016 Author Posted March 17, 2016 I think so, after reading you chat I think he likes you and he has feeling for you. Do you like that guy and want to proceed your relationship. I don't know right now if I want that or not. Just had a bad break up couple of months ago so I'm not even walking that way. I respect his friendship a lot.
thai_singles Posted March 21, 2016 Posted March 21, 2016 What is done is done!! Let it go now. No need to get confused. Just enjoy your life.
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