Dani33 Posted March 13, 2016 Posted March 13, 2016 Last year I dated a girl from other country, she was visiting her father here (her parents are divorced) she was the nicest girl and we dated for 4 months. Then she came back to her country and we broke up. After that we texted maybe just 5 times. I didn't text her for 1 month and when I finally did she is totally rude with me. She told me "if you can go a whole month without talking to me don't ever talk to me again" and she also said that she is dating someone else. Is she right to be angry? 1
soph-walker Posted March 13, 2016 Posted March 13, 2016 Last year I dated a girl from other country, she was visiting her father here (her parents are divorced) she was the nicest girl and we dated for 4 months. Then she came back to her country and we broke up. After that we texted maybe just 5 times. I didn't text her for 1 month and when I finally did she is totally rude with me. She told me "if you can go a whole month without talking to me don't ever talk to me again" and she also said that she is dating someone else. Is she right to be angry? The actions of a scorned woman. Sounds like you hurt her feelings by not texting her for a month. It's a two way street though so I'm not sure she has full grounds to be cross with you 1
smackie9 Posted March 13, 2016 Posted March 13, 2016 She's not mad just irritated that you contacted her again, when she expected you to have already moved on like she did. When she broke up with you, that was your cue right there to leave her alone. Her comment about not messaging her for a month was her placing blame on you....she's retarded. 1
elaine567 Posted March 13, 2016 Posted March 13, 2016 Last year I dated a girl from other country, she was visiting her father here (her parents are divorced) she was the nicest girl and we dated for 4 months. Then she came back to her country and we broke up. After that we texted maybe just 5 times. I didn't text her for 1 month and when I finally did she is totally rude with me. She told me "if you can go a whole month without talking to me don't ever talk to me again" and she also said that she is dating someone else. Is she right to be angry? Did you break up with her? Where you the dumper? 1
Author Dani33 Posted March 13, 2016 Author Posted March 13, 2016 Did you break up with her? Where you the dumper? It was mutual because she lives too far away in Europe and we agreed that we would breakup when the 4 months passed. But I do care for her and I told her to stay in touch. 1
Cinnamonstix Posted March 13, 2016 Posted March 13, 2016 She was hurt. She felt that you did not care about her very much if you could go so long without talking to her. Because you broke up due to distance, not the relationship itself, she may have expected you to still want her in your life. 1
elaine567 Posted March 13, 2016 Posted March 13, 2016 I guess she was sorely disappointed by your lack of contact and moved on. It probably hurt her a lot, hence her anger now. 1
Author Dani33 Posted March 14, 2016 Author Posted March 14, 2016 She was hurt. She felt that you did not care about her very much if you could go so long without talking to her. Because you broke up due to distance, not the relationship itself, she may have expected you to still want her in your life. Now I feel guilty. 1
katiegrl Posted March 14, 2016 Posted March 14, 2016 Now I feel guilty. Just curious, but if you still cared for her, why didn't you text her for a month? You didn't break up because you lost attraction for each other or weren't compatible, you broke up because of the distance. Why didn't you fight for the relationship? Where there is a will there's a way. Agree with the others she doesn't think you care and is incredibly hurt! I would be too... 1
Author Dani33 Posted March 14, 2016 Author Posted March 14, 2016 Just curious, but if you still cared for her, why didn't you text her for a month? You didn't break up because you lost attraction for each other or weren't compatible, you broke up because of the distance. Why didn't you fight for the relationship? Where there is a will there's a way. Agree with the others she doesn't think you care and is incredibly hurt! I would be too... Honestly the main reason that I didn't text her for 1 month was because the last time that I did, she was giving me short responses and I saw a photo of her hugging a guy so I asked her if she has a boyfriend and she just avoided my question. I was a little upset. 1
katiegrl Posted March 14, 2016 Posted March 14, 2016 Honestly the main reason that I didn't text her for 1 month was because the last time that I did, she was giving me short responses and I saw a photo of her hugging a guy so I asked her if she has a boyfriend and she just avoided my question. I was a little upset. Okay, fair enough! Tnx for clarity. With this new info...although we all have a right to our feelings, her getting angry at you for pulling back .... when she was the one giving short replies and posting photo with another guy, her reaction seemed very over the top!
Tahirthegreat Posted March 14, 2016 Posted March 14, 2016 Honestly the main reason that I didn't text her for 1 month was because the last time that I did, she was giving me short responses and I saw a photo of her hugging a guy so I asked her if she has a boyfriend and she just avoided my question. I was a little upset. Oh she's out of line. She should not be mad at you for not wanting to butt in on her relationship. Be glad she doesnt want to talk to you, you dont have to deal with that craziness.
smackie9 Posted March 14, 2016 Posted March 14, 2016 I'm stickin with my post.....she's being retarded.
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