Author sv1123 Posted March 16, 2016 Author Posted March 16, 2016 I've been trying to avoid going when his shift is if I can recently, but it's difficult because this is the only place around here that's close enough where I can work. (Long story.) I'lll need to go in tomorrow and I think that's also when his shift is. But good news is I'll be traveling for work soon so I'll be gone for awhile after. I don't know though, I kind of hate making assumptions and being in this confused state. I'm contemplating casually directly asking him why he is giving me mixed signals tomorrow during his break, and then kindly leaving it at that. I won't see him for awhile after anyways. Is that a bad idea? I just hate not knowing for sure I guess...
thecrucible Posted March 16, 2016 Posted March 16, 2016 If it were me, I'd not be inclined to ask him anything directly and I would just stick on plainly non-flirtatious terms with him. It could be that he is holding back for some reason. Or perhaps he is just one of those people who just wants to know they've still got it so they don't intend on anything serious happening as a result of a flirtatious interaction?
Author sv1123 Posted March 18, 2016 Author Posted March 18, 2016 So I briefly spoke to him today asking him what is going on. He said he got back with his ex-girlfriend!? I don't even know how to react to that because he's been flirting despite that. He said he should have told me and apologized, but all I could say was cold-politely "yeah you should have, ok, bye." I think I just was kind of taken aback at how wtf that is!!! Still am.
xcupid Posted March 18, 2016 Posted March 18, 2016 No, he told me he's specifically interested in me and wanted to date me, and repeated the same words like a week ago. Just saw him this morning even and he was singling me out to flirt. Yeah, I wasn't going to ask him out but I thought I got all the signs right...and tbh I did. He's definitely interested. I just have no idea why he's not making a move. Move on. He's wasting your time and getting your hopes up. How long are you going to wait for this guy to ask you out?
Author sv1123 Posted March 18, 2016 Author Posted March 18, 2016 Oh, I've definitely decided to move on, just sharing to update everybody. Also, like half shocked/half amused at what a jerk he turned out to be. Amused because it's so stereotypically player-ish you couldn't make it up.
dispatch3d Posted March 18, 2016 Posted March 18, 2016 I believe there was a study that came out that said guys don't call because they don't want to get rejected, rather than it having anything to do with his interest level in you. I know when I haven't called in the past it was because I didn't think she was interested or I'd just get the run around.
SunnyWeather Posted March 18, 2016 Posted March 18, 2016 another thing to consider is when a guy is wishy-washy it's not worth pining over and trying to analyze why he is or isn't calling. if a guy is interested you will know! ---I know it's a cliche' that's thrown around here all the time, but so so true
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