meeting ex tomorrow and idk if its a good thing

[chesca210]

My ex bf of 3 weeks and i are gonna meet tomorrow and idk if its a good meeting or a bad one. He knows i miss him and still love him. And a few days ago i almost told him i love him thru text but then saif never mind but he said love u 2. Well i asked hin yesterday if we could see each other in 2 weeks, to give him time, even offered not to talk to him till then. He said itd have to be a sunday and i said whatever works for him is ok with me. He said i know ur dying to see me and i said lo siento. But then he asked me what i was doing Sunday and i told him i work in the morning and he offered to take me. I nervously agreed. I offered gas money but he said no. In confused. Idk if meeting tomorrow is gonna be good or bad. Idk how to handle this. Im scared of getting stood up or him saying itll be the last time i see him. Am i over thinking this?

[Simon Phoenix]

Yes, you are overthinking. And yes, this is a terrible awful idea because you're an emotional wreck. I hope he does cancel, because this isn't going to be pretty. You're either going to be broken up with again, or he's going to groom you for a FWB scenario where you hook up but you're "not together", which is going to cause even more confusion and angst.

 

Bad idea all around.

[kztar]

This is a TERRIBLE idea. Take it from someone who did this a month ago. He might agree to meet up with you to give you closure. By no means will he be ready to get back. This sounds like more pain and disappointment. Sorry to tell you but this is not going to end well.

[ksol9]

Don't meet with him unless you know what it's about. Although you may want him back, let him work for it a little. That way you are sure his intentions are genuine.

[Mrin]

Just look through the breaking up and coping sub-forums. You never see a thread title like "saw my ex and it was a great idea". It is almost always a very bad idea.