Funkwithme Posted March 12, 2016 Posted March 12, 2016 My ex and i broke up about 9 months ago and we go to the same uni. On Friday, I was out with my friends and I was dancing and everyone started circling me, including his friends and I looked back and realised him coming up behind me to try and dance with me. I pushed him away and he seemed so shocked. I just elbowed him and was like move move!! And called him an idiot ( i was pretty drunk lol) And he was like "what ?? What??" And my friends just guarded him off. He proceeded to hover around me and LITERALLY stand and stare everytime I spoke or danced with another guy. I caught him staring at me and watching me most of that night. He does this EVERYTIME I see him. I cut contact with him straight after the break up but there was a time in december when I saw him out clubbing and he was telling me he missed me and stuff. Told me i look good and tried to kiss me (neither of us were too drunk. Just merry.) and we spent the next day together (we just chilled. Nothing sexual) . He kept stroking my hair and kissing my forehead. Making reference to being back in touch, asking if i could unblock him, talking about how much he enjoyed time we spent together, saying he'd line to talk about the future. (Big mistake on my part. Opened a rotten old can of worms) However, he didnt contact me after that and i saw him a week later, he actually walked past me and he definately saw me but I stopped him and asked him. He told me I'm over thinking and . I asked him to just tell me if it was a drunk night, he said it was a drunken night but he wanted to speak to me that night. So I just walked away. Didn't speak again. He didn't attemp to contact me after that either. (However he is blocked on everything so I have no clue whether he has) There was also I time where he'd go to my housemates and introduce himself as my ex (when he wasnt loud and proud about the actual relationship) He'd seen me in the club once and grabbed my hand and said "you're embarrassing yourself" and in december i asked him what he meant and he said as soon as he said that he felt silly and that it was because he didnt like all the men coming up to me (lol) Infact, everytime I been in a club setting he has to do something. Usually he positions himself so he can watch me and I know this because I will move and he will follow. I'm really confused, he's done enough. Why doesn't he just leave me be? I treated this guy so well and he tries to disrespect me like this?? This is the first ex that has made me wish so badly upon them that I'd actually like to see them hurt . Smh its so wrong but I just seriously can't believe I wasted my time on such an ass! Like if you don't want me (which i know he'd say if he did) why are you constantly making little movements to remind me of your existence . What do you guys think of this? (We broke up because he said he needed space but would mess me around. Say he misses me& come with private jokes but wouldnt talk to me properly or talk about our relationship..All of this was around exam period. I got tired of waiting and dumped him which he just accepted without a fight. After that he kept trying to contact me saying he misses me and ge's worried about me but he cabt give me what I want and he doesn't want to lead me astray)
brothers343 Posted March 12, 2016 Posted March 12, 2016 To him is all fun and games. Being in college supposed to be fun and enjoying new experiences. Sometimes people want what they can't have. He probably thinks he can't have you anymore so his doing what any young punk will do. Keep doing what your doing and enjoy your college experience. Good luck.
Author Funkwithme Posted March 12, 2016 Author Posted March 12, 2016 To him is all fun and games. Being in college supposed to be fun and enjoying new experiences. Sometimes people want what they can't have. He probably thinks he can't have you anymore so his doing what any young punk will do. Keep doing what your doing and enjoy your college experience. Good luck. Thank you so much! If this is the case, how sad smh
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