minxiee Posted March 12, 2016 Posted March 12, 2016 (edited) So this guy and i have been getting close. We've been talking 2 or 3 times a week for 3 months and have spent an awesome week together (we live long distance away from each other). We were talking about us and he said the distance bothers him and that he didn't want to become too attached. I said "Getting attached to someone is scary, sometimes it's easier not to do it at all. Maybe that influences you a little?". Then i realized it would have sounded too emotionally demanding and i said "actually i realize what an annoying thing that was for me to say". He responded with "haha. i don't even have a response". I said "haha that bad? lol" and he said "no, i just don't know what to say". After that we both said good night. Will i ever hear from him again? What did he mean by "i don't know what to say"? I'm worried that he now thinks i'm overly emotional and 'crazy'. It's not the first time i've said 'emotional' stuff like this and he doesn't react well. Do you think i blew it with him? I'm 30. He's 27. Edited March 12, 2016 by minxiee
ExpatInItaly Posted March 12, 2016 Posted March 12, 2016 I think you're over-analyzing your comment. It doesn't sound too emotional. However, I would pay very close attention to what he is saying - he's concerned about the distance and doesn't want to get attached. To me it sounds like this is not going to become a more serious relationship at this point. 4
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